This is the next very important question. What you learn now will help you in business and family relationships. The problem of every person living on earth is that each person lives in his own bubble. Each of us lives in his bubble of belief, each of us lives in his bubble of thinking, habitual actions.
The problem is that our idea of ourselves, of our capabilities, of this world, of our place in this world - this is what this bubble has weaved. We created our bubble to support us, but now it limits us.
We have grown and developed, and may be able to go on, and the bubble now holds us. Sometimes this phenomenon is also called the "glass ceiling" - when we seem to be going up, but we rested on something and did not move further.
The problem of life in its bubble is that when we live in it, we do not see it, and we do not see how it affects us. But we can help ourselves, and it is easier for others, because when we observe people from the outside, we can see their bubbles better. If someone helps us by asking coaching questions, then we can see our bubble. The question should make us virtually go beyond our bubble and look at ourselves from the outside. This is what coaching is aimed at, as a system of motivation and inspiration for people, this is what you can do for other people.
And they will be infinitely grateful to you for this, because we can unknowingly destroy our career, business, health, family relations, our investments and finances, but as soon as we go beyond the bubble, what was previously hidden from us becomes obvious . You can help a person at a certain stage change his bubble to a larger one, woven from ideas aimed at success. The main thing is to want to look out of it and find out how it is.
For example, you can say to a person: "Friend, you complain about your life for half an hour, but if you look at yourself with your wife's eyes, what will you see?" Such a single question can change a person all his life. You can ask a person a question: “What do you complain about your boss that he doesn’t love you: doesn’t he raise his position and doesn’t increase his salary? And if you looked at yourself with his eyes, would you listen with his ears, what would you notice?”. A lot of people after these questions will start to live and act differently, if of course they are ready to act, and not to look for excuses and blame other people.
You can help yourself. You can travel forward for five years and already look through the eyes of a person at your life at the moment. What would you see, what would you find, what would you notice in your own bubble? It should be assured that when you notice that it does not work in your life, you have a unique opportunity to get rid of it. And start creating exactly the life you dream about.
