Teenagers and boys often say: girls don't like me.
This is not a sentence at all.By working on yourself, you can become a decent guy that attracts attention.
Probable causes
Why don't girls like me?
We will understand for a start the reasons why girls do not like you.
It will help find the best ways to fix the situation.
The reasons:
- behave too cheeky;
- too modest and indecisive, while girls prefer self-confident guys;
- reticent;
- too talkative;
- you have little money - many girls pay attention to the level of well-being;
- you do not know how to have a conversation, and the girls with you next to it quickly get bored;
- too intrusive and rush things;
- no charisma;
This is a special condition, a personality trait, when a person is distinguished by individuality, pronounced qualities, strong energy that attracts other people.
- rudeness is present in your speech, demeanor;
- excessive softness, ductility;
- the habit of complaining: bad life, own failures, other people, problems - pessimism pushes away, you want to stay away from such an individual in order not to get infected with a bad mood;
- passivity, lack of initiative;
- confidence that everyone should, while you should not.
This is not all the reasons people are unique, and there may be some kind of individual quality or character trait that seems repulsive.
Rate your abilities, behavior, social contacts.
It is best to write them down or ask people you trust.
Is it true that this is because of the appearance?
Appearance plays an important role whether a person likes it or not, but not always. Good husbands became men and not having outstanding appearance, but on the other hand they took on other qualities: a sense of humor, ability to care, self-confidence, unique charisma.
This does not mean that you can forget about the appearance and not take care of yourself.
At the first meeting the girl will certainly pay attention to how you look. If you have untidy clothes that have not been washed for a long time, this repels.
Problem skin also often causes girls to avoid contact. But modern cosmetology offers many effective means, so if you have acne, it is better to try to get rid of them.
Matters and smell.
If a person does not care for himself, he smells of sweat, the attractiveness of such a person is sharply reduced.
Take care of yourself, be sure to take a shower, use deodorant or toilet water with a slightly perceptible odor.
When choosing a guy girl focuses on a set of qualities.
This is not only an appearance, but also your behavior. Therefore, it cannot be said that girls do not like you just because they have some external flaws.
We evaluate the person as a whole, but we must remember that often the first impression is crucial - we are able to assess whether a person is attractive in just 5 seconds of acquaintance.
Signs of her dislikes
How to understand that you do not like a girl? You give the girl signs of attention, but she is in no hurry to react to them, avoiding contact. It is important to understand: the girl doesn’t like you or she for some reason doesn’t want to communicate, and not necessarily what specifically with you.
Signs that she doesn't like you:
- trying to stay away - if a girl leans towards you, then she feels sympathy, if she does not like you, tries to keep her distance and even deviates;
- she does not like when you touch her or are too close;
- she refuses to go on a date with you;
- answers the phone in monosyllables or prefers not to answer the phone;
- discusses you with her friends in a negative way - pay attention to how her friends behave next to you;
- flirts with other guys, communicates with them more willingly than with you;
- a look tells a lot - an interested girl looks straight into her eyes, but if she doesn’t like you, she avoids contact with a look;
- notice the expression on her face at the sight of you;
- the tone of the conversation will tell you a lot - interested, soft or, on the contrary, sharp, irritable;
- she does not seek to learn about your interests, place of work, shows complete indifference to your personality;
- teasing, uttering degrading phrases.
Find out if she likes you, asking directly. What is stopping you?
Do not be afraid of failures - this is part of our lives. Every failure is an opportunity to cultivate, to know yourself better and hone your communication skills.
She does not reciprocate: what to do?
To start don't get upset
There are cases when guys managed to win a girl, even if she did not like him.
What to do:
- Pay attention to your appearance.
- Develop self-confidence.
- Develop a proactive stance, do not sit still, get an education, work.
- Do not be unnecessarily intrusive.
- Give signs of attention, make light compliments.
- As an option - stop paying attention to it.
The girl will be interested in such a sudden change in mood, and she will have a desire to attract you.
- Invite to the cinema, for a walk in the park. Do not demand anything from her in return. Spend after the walk home, tell us how pleasant it was to talk.
How to please the girl?
How do you like a girl who does not like you? Decide do you really need this girlif she doesn't like you at all.
We choose people to communicate with, on a subconscious level.
Smells are of great importance.
You may not be aware of them, but signals come to the brain - yes, this is my man, I like his smell. That is why even a seemingly attractive person we may not like.
To please the girl, be yourself, behave naturally. Pay attention to how you dress, speak. Think about whether you need a girl, the main criterion for the selection of which is money.
Find out, what type of men like a girl. Ask your mutual friends about this.
But this does not mean that you should copy other people. Foster in yourself qualities that seem attractive and interesting to a girl.
Perhaps you lack a sense of humor, you are not as sociable as she would like, or you are acting too cheeky.
Communication rules:
- Do not impose, if you really do not want to communicate, you just humiliate yourself.
- Cultivate a culture of behavior.
- Strive for self-improvement.
- Have diversified interests.
- Do not be afraid to change.
- Do not adjust to the world, but adjust it to yourself.
- Have your own opinion.
- Avoid getting into a friendly zone - here you have no prospects.
The girl you don't like is - this is a kind of experience.
Do not be upset if you still can not win it.
Passion with time passes, therefore important to maintain self-esteem and win out from any situation.
I'm an ugly guy: how to be?
Why did you decide that you are ugly? We do not always correctly perceive our appearance, especially if our parents inspired us in childhood that there is nothing special in us.
Even if you have irregular facial features, skin blemishes, you can still be beautiful in your own way. Many flaws are corrected with a smile, facial expression, and proper facial expressions.
What to do:
- Compensate your appearance with other virtues.: kind character, activity, courage, ability to care, beautiful speech.
- Grow, be determined. Girls choose guys not only in appearance. It is important for them whether you can keep your family in the future, be a protector, a reliable support.
- Chat and chat again. Attract the opposite sex with an extraordinary mind, ingenuity, sense of humor, ability to convince anyone of anything. Be socially active.
- Develop inner confidence. For a man, beauty is not the most important thing; it is important who you are in life, what you have achieved, what your potential is.
- Skin defects are removed by special means. and procedures and a professional beautician.
- Take a course in public speaking.
- Be different from other guys.: own views on life, unusual hobbies, interesting work, the ability to easily conduct dialogue, courage, the ability to take risks.
The most important thing that should be present in any person, regardless of gender, - inner self-confidence, feeling that you are leading this world.
Look at examples of famous people - many of them have an outstanding appearance, even have pronounced defects, but at the same time they successful in politics, cinema, opposite sex.
What plays the role is not external beauty, but how you can present yourself.
What mistakes should not make?
In attempts to conquer a girl, guys often commit rash acts or behave incorrectly:
- try to become more courageous by taking alcohol. A good girl can only be repelled by such methods;
- too impose, constantly call, require meetings;
- jealous even before the beginning of a serious relationship, although jealousy in any relationship is a negative feeling, it should be avoided if possible;
- behave too cheekily, immediately shortening the distance - not all girls are happy to respond to touch and close contact with people you know recently;
- too long pulling with an explanation, an invitation to a date - in the end they risk losing a girl, as she will pay attention to other guys - nobody loves the insecure;
- immediately begins to talk about himself, his exploits, "Pontyu";
- apologizes on every occasion;
- sets too many questions at the first meeting, especially of a personal nature.
The girl chooses the one with whom she will feel protected, who can give her love and attention.
Often our choices are we do unconsciously, not understanding why it happened. Keep your naturalness, uniqueness, develop, and then your girl will certainly be there.
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