It is human nature to complain about life. Like, failed, parents were forced to engage in an unloved affair, and then the routine began and was not up to the realization of the dream of a lifetime. However, we ourselves often push them into the far corner. Psychologists have identified 20 common excuses, alienating us from the dream of life.
1. My dreams and goals will wait. Set the right priorities and have fun. Use every chance to reach the goal.
2. I have no time. It would seem that there is no time to engage in the realization of a dream. However, it can be combined with work - for example, you can put a part of your salary on a deposit in a bank and spend a vacation in Thailand. Or write on the head of a great book at the weekend.
3. I am not talented enough. Chin up! Pushkin did not immediately write "Eugene Onegin". Need to start small. Everything else will come with practice.
4. This problem is too complicated. Do not think about it for some time and insight will come soon.
5. I am not ready yet. The chance to realize your dream fate can teach at any time. Just do it and you will realize that you were wrong.
6. I could do everything a lot better. Blows head against the wall will not bring anything except a bruise on his forehead. Next time take into account the shortcomings, and everything will be OK.
7. I am a loser. This loser does nothing and only floods his grief with vodka at best. And you have attempted to fulfill our plans. These heroes do not give up!
8. I want everything to be simple. If the peaks were submitted so simply, then each of us would have conquered Chomolungma. The will of a person, his striving for victory, is experienced by time, envious persons and elements. Only having overcome fire, water and copper pipes, you will get real pleasure from your victory.
9. Others get it easier than me. Naturally, because they already have accumulated experience. But once these people stood in the beginning and were also failing. Ask them for advice or read a book on the subject.
10. I have nothing to rejoice. Are you sure about that? Thank God even for waking up and going to work. Enjoy the sun, rain, snow, good news. And the whole world will answer you the same.
11. I have too many flaws. Well, let. All the disadvantages are easy to cross out the merits. You can be disabled, but hit the world with your talents. In addition, there are many tolerant people in the world who will help you to look at shortcomings with different eyes.
12. I don't have the support I need.. Support the aspirations of others and you will be reciprocated.
13. I have no time for anyone else. Most likely, you just do not want to help others. Leave the work in the office, come home, take the time for your child or mother. The relief and the solution of complex problems will come by itself.
14. My close relationship can wait. Relationships wait, but you have to go to the funeral of people close to you and blame yourself for the lost moments of communication with them. And how many questions are left unasked!
15. I will break my promise only once. A broken promise will put on you the stigma of a dishonest person. And next time people will be afraid to mess with you. Therefore, in no case do not break these promises, even to yourself.
16. One little lie does not hurt. Yes, but only if you do not want to injure the news about the imminent death of a seriously ill relative. In other cases, the proverbial wisdom acts: "How the string does not twist, but the end will be." One slightest miscalculation - and the truth will come out.
17. They care about me, but they are too busy to fulfill their promises. Make the appropriate conclusions. Most likely, you are surrounded by people for whom you are only a cash cow. A true friend will fulfill his promise without any excuse or will not promise anything.
18. I never cry. Tears - a means to relieve stress. Therefore, if you suddenly become hysterical, you should not be ashamed. Just analyze the situation and take measures to avoid its repetition in the future.
19. I refuse to forgive. Even the most inveterate enemies must be forgiven and prayed for their health in the church. Accumulated resentments will eat you up from the inside, and the offender will only smile and cause you new misfortunes.
20. My heart has been broken too many times to take risks. All of our lives are sheer risks. Its highway, like a zebra, is either a white section or a black one. Just keep bright days in your memory, and gloomy ones - return them to fate.
In conclusion, I want to say: your life is only in your hands. Listen to your heart and by all means wait for it to answer important questions.
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