20 rules that simplify life
By virtue of their upbringing, education and accumulated life experience, each person has a certain stock of psychological tricks and a small list of unspoken rules, adhering to which, it is much easier and more comfortable to survive in this world.
Life wisdom that simplifies life
1. An interesting feature of human memory is to memorize only the first and last events (episodes, theatrical performance, moments of a meeting or a party). So, going on an interview or preparing a lecture (report, presentation), consider this nuance.
2. Mirror - a deterrent to irritated customers, customers or visitors. This trick will help everyone working in the service sector, such as a flower shop, shopping center, cafe or bar. Place a large mirror behind your main location so that the customer can see their reflection. Even the most notorious brawlers will not want to get angry while watching themselves.
3. Do not rush to show negative emotions. Having learned to restrain yourself in the midst of a conflict, you will simplify your life a lot, because the outgoing word cannot be erased with an eraser from the memory of the person to whom it is addressed. The cause of the conflict may be forgotten, and the insult is unlikely. Therefore, at the most peak moment, take a deep breath and start slowly counting at least 5.
4. It is much easier to get an answer to your question if you don’t do anything, just wait. Your interlocutor, who did not wish to answer, will fall into a situation when the pause is delayed and becomes simply indecent, which will force him to start speaking.
5. Simple chewing gum will help you to calm the nerves walking before a responsible event. Before the performance (exam, interview, negotiation), chew gum. How does this help you? The mechanism of action is primitive to insanity - when we work with jaws, the brain subconsciously perceives this as the process of absorbing food. But in the face of any threat or danger, nobody eats, does it? So everything is calm and no tension simply does not exist. Here is a physiological phenomenon.
6. Having learned to listen carefully, you will firmly gain the reputation of an excellent conversationalist.
7. After any completed conversation, the person does not remember your specific words, but how he felt after them.
8. By copying the facial expressions, gestures and posture of the interlocutor, you seek his maximum confidence and predisposition to you. For example, if he put his hand in his pocket, then you repeat this action, and if he bowed his head to the shoulder, then you will perform this gesture with mirror precision.
9. To make it easier to master science or learn something new, try to teach the newly acquired skills or knowledge of another person. There is no more effective way to assimilate the information obtained, than an attempt to transfer it to an outsider.
10. If you are sincerely glad to see a person, it will be mutual. Maybe not this time or immediately, but at the next meeting (meeting), so 100%.
11. The stressful situation mobilizes all your forces for struggle and its solutions, and also reveals the hidden resources of the body, which is manifested by rapid heartbeat and intermittent breathing. Possessing this information, feeling such manifestations, treat them with proper respect as a gift, and do not perceive them as a deadly threat.
12. A confident person has already achieved success by 50%. Often, self-confidence means a lot more than special knowledge or available strength. It has long been known that everyone in this reality plays its own role, and only those who manage this role better and more confidently flourish.
13. If you are trying to persistently get something for a long period of time, then most likely you will get it. The question is whether you need it then.
14. Consciously form friendships and connections. Sometimes a friendly gathering in a warm company can bring much more benefit and give valuable information than the watch vigil in front of a computer screen. Useful relationships and ties are worth more than diamonds, because they can help you resolve any issues and open the most inaccessible locks.
15. Your irritation about the behavior of the driver leading the car in front of you as if there was a retired kettle telling the driver can be dispelled in a split second. It is enough to imagine that your grandfather or elderly mother drives that car as you begin to be moved by such discomfort.
16. Watch your posture. Straight back and head held high in the root of changing attitudes towards you others.
17. When you are attacked by an attack of self-doubt or unreasonable panic, then start ... cleaning! Understandable mechanical movements perfectly set brains, clearing them, thereby enabling your mind to bounce back and calm down.
18. Watch your appearance. No matter how meaningful the conversation during a business meeting or interview, the state of your jacket or shirt can easily cross out the most correct and competent answers and statements.
19. By telling a funny story or making a group of people laugh in another way, you can track the connections and the degree of closeness of the relations of the participants of this company. When a group of individuals laughs, everyone, on a subconscious level, looks at that person from those present to whom he is most warmly related.
20. The relationship of mood and mode of action is obvious. You can dance with happiness, and you can dance, creating a feeling of joy and happiness.
Take note of these simple tips, share them with your friends, and the world will become just a little, but happier and more harmonious, and you will be much easier to coexist with other people.
