Historically, we are different. We are men and women. We behave differently, we set priorities, we talk, we gesture, we drive a car, we prefer different TV shows and sports, we express feelings. In all different, but in one the same. We are the people. With our inherent needs, qualities, fears, desires, dreams. Always for some reason opposed to each other. They say, do not expect good from women, but all men are bastards. And they say that chickens are milked.
The relationship of the sexes is what the light is based on. This is where society comes from, the world of people, wonderful and controversial. Relationships are built on love, harmony, respect, that is why the cornerstone of any relationship is mutual understanding.
The key to understanding whether an object, a subject, is the knowledge and acceptance of another person. In this case, the other is a man. The creature is not always friendly, often closed, perhaps irresponsible, but infinitely self-confident and superior to the weaker sex. Meanwhile, the other is not only a man, but above all a man. So the person. Conscious.
A man can do anything.
The mistake is made by those who believe that male psychology primitive. There is no such thing - primitive psychology. Such a psychology lies in the field of behavioral instincts, which are inherent only to sharks and crocodiles.
Man, man, woman, are much more complicated. Even primitive men and women thought more than crocodiles, otherwise how would they survive.
The nature of mother decreed that the man was a getter, a hunter, a farmer, a warrior, a victor and a father. One could not man. It can not to this day. Become a mother. He can participate in the conception of life, but can not bear, produce, and feed the baby. And so it happened from time immemorial: a woman with children, a man on a hunt or a war. Woman life landscaping. A man is guarding the borders. Everyone knew firmly who they were to each other and what was required of them. They both understood that they would be lost without each other.
Today, the valiant warrior and dexterous hunter are a thing of the past. In their place came a modern man. Self-realization is undoubtedly important for them. Unlike a woman, who often considers a successful marriage and three children as the final stop, a man pays a lot of attention to career growth, work, because a man is more likely than a woman to be judged by his actions.
The psychology of men and prevailing stereotypes.
It is curious, but the fact is that society largely determines male psychology. Still strong and dominate stereotypes:
- Men tears are not to face.
- A man must endure pain, toothache, headache, heartache.
- A man must be successful.
- A man has to earn a lot.
- A man must be domineering.
- Man is a wall. Behind him is always safe, warm and dry.
You can continue indefinitely. Not all stereotypes are bad, but some are obviously absurd. So, men, outwardly rock-like, suddenly break under the yoke of every kind of "must", less persistent sour, and impudent send everyone and everything to the devils and live by the principle "nothing should anyone."
Male perception is different from female. Women are attentive to the little things and react painfully to abrupt changes. Men see the whole picture and consider change as an integral part of life.
Men, as a rule, are more assertive, prefer to act directly and openly, in addition, they are visuals, rely on what they see and rarely delve into the hidden dissatisfaction of their partner. Representatives of the stronger sex have a negative attitude towards monotonous work, boring routine actions, and sometimes are uncompromising and rested.
Competition can not cooperate.
Meanwhile, a man can be hurt, tender and inconsistent. Indeed, in the formation of personality, the role is not at all a combination of chromosomes, but, above all, upbringing and the surrounding world.
The current world is such that the qualities of a hunter and a conqueror are demanded less and less, and it is cheaper to buy a stone wall.
Today one more problem has been added to all the troubles - women are less and less reminiscent of women, the weak, in need of protection, the wise mothers of the family. Women increasingly resemble men in skirts, occupy senior positions, shave their heads and go into the army, hire nannies and rush to work. Will there be such a male sphere, where the female head would not become familiar?
So, in addition to “must”, society imposes on a man an involuntary rival who was once a good ally — a woman with whom a man needs to build a family, rather than compete in the career and on the battlefield.
In fact, which of us are rivals, if we have one goal, we can only achieve it by cooperating.
