How to stop worrying
Frankly, the author of this article is an optimist. But what about the positive in this world? We fall, we get a certain lesson, we rise and move on. That is the law. No time to detail each and mourn their problems.
Sometimes, however, a person gets stuck in one place and cannot get out of depression like a car in a swamp. It’s not a good idea to wait so much at the seaside. Some tips for successfully overcoming crises, depressions.
Go your way
“If you notice that you are on the side of the majority, this is a sure sign that it’s time to change ...” - Mark Twain
It is very important to do what you think. No need to use other people's decisions, you can not live on someone else's orders. Because then it is not our life. It is rather alien, the life of others fears. Have your say and go your own way. Do not allow everyone to change you, because so you can get lost in the billions of tips of strangers.
Yes, you may still have little experience, but you will get it further. Consider the advice of friends, relatives, but decide for yourself. Do not let decide for you. Freedom is your right, listen to your heart, soul. Going on your way, you create the originality of yourself, separated from the crowd.
Do not worry about anything that has never affected you.
Illusions are our enemy and a serious mistake. They devastate you. Empty experiences are worth nothing. You know, sadness because you are not a president is somehow illogical. Better think about really important questions: career, friends, family. Throw away all unnecessary.
"We all mired in a swamp, but some of us look at the stars." - Oscar Wilde
Our mood is up to us. If we are sad, then a sunny spring day will seem bad to us, and if you are happy, even a gloomy autumn will be for you the best time of the year. So, a positive attitude to everything around is important. The world is far from ideal, treat it easier.
Accept the world as it is
Faced with problems, confusion, accept, acknowledge their existence. What to do, life sometimes throws us trials, but the realization of this will help you overcome difficulties. Sometimes it is even better not to pay attention to certain problems, not to deal with them. For example, why do you need empty disputes in the bus? If you are ignored, or someone does not talk to you, just believe that everything will work out over time, and you should not torment yourself.
