You are smart, kind and cute, and for some reason capricious young ladies do not want to notice the obvious advantages and subtle spiritual organization, preferring to communicate with others. What's the matter? How to understand what guys like girls and how to become "the most"? What kind of power attracts the weaker sex, even to "bad" men who are not distinguished by intelligibility and who change women like gloves?
Perhaps the whole point is that you don’t attach importance to the criteria that are important for girls choosing their ideal partner. Things that are insignificant for you, for the weaker half of humanity can be paramount, and because of some trifles, the first impression will be hopelessly flawed.
In order for a girl to have a desire to meet and get to know you, you need to meet the key male parameters of attractiveness, and this is completely in your power. Let's figure out which men women like.
Appearance
The phrase that a man should be a little prettier than a monkey is a joke. In any case, it should be neat, smelling good, charming and brutal "monkey".
Easy unshaven? Please, but do not confuse it with weekly bristles. "Creative" mess on the head? Yes, but only on the condition of a good haircut.
What else is important for a favorable impression:
- clean, neatly trimmed nails;
- no bad breath;
- neat, not necessarily fashionable, but necessarily stylish and suitable for your size clothing;
- dirty shoes can spoil the impression.
Girls like strong, courageous guys, they need confidence that they are safe with you. Therefore, a beautiful body, with moderately inflated muscles, straightened shoulders and a firm gait - is an application for success. And if your appearance is accompanied by a light trail of pleasant men's fragrance, then the chances are greatly increased.
Sense of humor
Even mature women find it easier to communicate with a partner who is able to see the situation from a funny side. And young laughter, always ready to burst into silvery bells of laughter from an unexpected joke, love to communicate with guys who have a "suspended" language.
Your task is to avoid awkward situations with prolonged silence, when you can not find the right topics and words to communicate. Find out the girl: be interested in her hobbies and life principles, circle of friends and plans for the future. Jokes in moderation, remember that to make fun of the shortcomings of the appearance of the young lady is strictly prohibited.
The impression of a person develops in the first three minutes of communication and it is important to have time to show your best.
Confidence
If you, all so sporty, stylish and fit, came up to the girl with a firm gait and suddenly began to mumble something absurd, shifting from one foot to the other, then, most likely, they would wave to you with a pen and fade away. The guy must radiate confidence, self-sufficiency, courage, to be resolute and persistent.
What for? First of all, you are a man and the strength of spirit must be cultivated in yourself since childhood. And secondly, the girl, even the most emancipated and self-reliant, wants to feel secure and prefers the guy to take the initiative in his strong and reliable hands.
Purposefulness
A young man who has a goal and he moves toward it slowly (or quickly), but surely, is interesting to the girl on a subconscious level. She understands that such a man will not sit on the sofa and wait for the weather from the sea. She intuitively feels that having linked life with such a person, one can not worry about the future of the family and children, because a partner who knows how to set reasonable goals for himself and achieve them is a guarantee of a successful and prosperous future.
Girls are attracted by established guys - educated, intelligent, with dignity and healthy ambitions, because of them grow up wealthy men who can provide a family with a decent life.
Understanding and support
The girl likes it when the guy is attentive: he will listen, tell you what to do, encourage and calm him down. She needs to feel that she is important to you, every day to make sure that you find her attractive, to hear compliments and confessions.
The girls have their own problems, frustration and resentment. It is important for them that a close person supports and comforts, gives practical advice from the point of view of a man or makes him shake things up and look at the situation from the other side. Try to become indispensable, but do not turn into a vest for tears.
Psychologists say that each girl has her own list of qualities that she would like to see in her chosen one. Usually these are the positive traits of a good person — kind, intelligent, reliable, strong ...
But sometimes it happens that on the way of a girl who is remarkable in all respects, an arrogant, pretty and brutal macho meets with danger, risk and unpredictability, and the young lady forgets about all her demands. Such small female weaknesses, as a rule, end with disappointment and an understanding that a real man has not yet met.
If you can pleasantly impress a girl and show yourself to be a strong, confident, decisive, reliable and understanding representative of the male half of humanity, who are able to make difficult decisions and achieve goals, success with the fair sex is guaranteed.