If a man fell out of love, how he behaves: the psychology of behavior

The human psyche is formed in such a way that she needs to "rest" after a long stay at the peak of emotions.

Therefore, in any situation, be it stress or strong falling in love, a period of cooling will come sooner or later.

For people who were under stress, this is only a plus, but for lovers it can be serious problem.

This is especially hard for women, because they believe that their lovers have lost interest in them.

In this case, it is important to know how a man behaves, if he has fallen out of love with a woman. This will help to distinguish the usual period of peace and tranquility from real relationship problems.

Is it possible to understand that love has passed?

Of course, falling in love (if it really is falling in love, not passion or sympathy) does not pass immediately.

The fact that a person suddenly realizes that he no longer loves his partner is not a momentary event.

This is a whole series of different feelings and emotions, replacing each other, and resulting in the realization of the terrible: You no longer love this person.

Of course, each person is unique.

He has their characteristic habits your own emotional range, but for almost everyone there are a number of alarming “bells” that, albeit imperceptibly, but signaling that you have stopped loving your partner or your partner have fallen out of love with you:

Do you like being alone, You are annoyed when your partner invades your space.. Remember how in the midst of your relationship you thought that you would not be able to live for hours without this person, how eagerly you waited for him to return from work, how were you ready to chat with him for days on end? What has changed now? You began to spend your free time with friends or alone, dedicating yourself to personal business or just sitting at a computer for whole evenings.
If each of you now has its own life, which is closed from a partner, then this is a bad sign.
Even the most insignificant features of your partner annoy you.. The manner of dressing, behavior, habits, “but here he / she has strangely arranged hairs in his eyebrows, how annoying it is” - all these are clear signs that your subconscious has already decided everything for you. Love has passed, so you should discuss this with your partner.
Lack of intimacy. Of course, sex is not a defining indicator of love and understanding, but agree that the total lack of physical intimacy is an alarming sign. Harmony in relationships determines physical attraction. Passed sexual desire, not far and to the mental rejection. If you yourself do not want your partner or noticed that he lost interest in you, then think about whether you have any problems in the relationship.
Lack of mutual respect. Remember if you had moments when in the heat of a quarrel you offended your partner, but did not feel guilt or shame. Or, maybe, your partner insulted you, but all his behavior does not contain even a hint of remorse. At the same time quarrels and disassemblies became more frequent and larger. This is a sure sign that there are serious problems in the relationship. About any love here already speech does not go.
Of course, now you can find a lot of couples for whom such a lifestyle is the norm, but do you want it to become the norm for you?
“We” became “I.” When you and your partner experienced the euphoria of new relationships or endless love (as you thought), then surely you constantly imagined what your future together would be, that you would be a single whole, and not separate personalities, there will always be “we”. Now, “we” has become two separate “I's”, dreams of a joint future have moved somewhere to a second or even third plan, you are no longer consulting with a partner, you or your partner make all the decisions on your own. These are true signs of discord in relationships and the extinction of past love.

How to understand that love has passed? Signs in this video:

How to determine?

Now that we have decided that love is, unfortunately, not a permanent phenomenon, we need to figure out how a partner behaves towards you when feelings have passed, and only irritation left.

What signs can signal a crisis in a relationship other than those described earlier.

Signs at husband

How to understand that your husband has fallen out of love? There are a number of major signs that signal that the family has become discord, and that your husband clearly does not feel bright feelings for you, as before.

Psychology of male behavior:

He is constantly annoyed. Any little things start to irritate him: you didn’t put your hair in the wrong way, didn’t make up your hair so much, put the phone in the wrong place, didn’t look at it that way. Sometimes this irritation can reach spurts of aggression, which are difficult to control.
He constantly offends you. The man who fell in love knows no mercy. During any quarrel or skirmish, your man tries to press on the most painful, to touch as much as possible.
He will provoke you to leave him first.
A man does not want to take responsibility for such a step into his own hands, he wants to lead you to such a decision in order to kill two birds with one stone: terminate the relationship and remain in the position of the victim.
He makes fun of you. The manifestation of emotions for the stronger sex is quite an ambiguous process. This applies to both positive emotions and negative. When inside your husband has reached the limit, when the realization that love has dried up has already come, it will be difficult for him to hide his feelings. Therefore, even with unfamiliar people (not to mention your mutual friends), he will try to pin you up, find weak points and hurt them as much as possible, to show that for him your relationship has come to an end.
The man has closed in himself. A situation that quite often goes hand in hand with constant irritation. When a man realizes that the feelings are gone, he often goes into himself and closes. He lingers at work, often tries to go on business trips. If you suddenly begin to ask about what happened, then he begins to get annoyed, snap, pretending that he is immersed in work, just to not touch on the topic of relationships.
This does not mean that a man started another woman, he just tries not to leave the comfort zone.
He tries to remain in his usual world, because he is afraid that here too he will lose his “ground” under his feet. He is in constant stress and anxiety, while a woman who loves him is harassing herself from not understanding what is happening.
No former cohesion. This sign is somewhat similar to the loss of a dream of a joint future. Your man has ceased to consult with you, to share ideas or life goals. Now he makes decisions on his own, completely ignoring you. Your life becomes more like a neighborhood than a tandem of two loving people.
Indifference. You have noticed that your husband doesn’t care when another man gives you a compliment or gives any signs of attention. Remember that any man - the owner, so he will not allow a stranger to seek your attention, and you flirt with someone. If your man remains indifferent, then, most likely, he is also indifferent to you.
The appearance of a mistress. The most unpleasant and dangerous situation for any woman is cheating on her husband. It's all quite obvious, if your man found another woman, then no struggle here will help. He chose another woman, he went to another woman, it is impossible to forcefully withdraw an adult from the family. That was the decision of your man, he made a choice.
Forget about the fight or war, save self-esteem.

Former husband married, then out of love?

Yes, that is exactly what happened. He finally fell out of love with you. No matter how cruel it may sound, but if your ex-husband married another woman shortly after your divorce, then, most likely, there is no question of any feelings for you here.

You should have courage move on, after all, it is possible that a new beautiful novel awaits you ahead.

10 signs that a man stops loving you:

Indifference guy

How to understand that the guy fell out of love with you? For those girls who have not yet created a family with their young man, there are also a number of signs that can be a disturbing sign about the extinction of feelings.

Partially here it is possible to carry signs from the previous paragraph.

Some signs that the guy doesn't love you anymore:

He avoids meetings and communication with you. In love obliges partners to seek each other. You try to spend more time together or socialize all night long.
The refusal of the partner to meet with you again, the coldness in communication can indicate that, most likely, his feelings for you are gradually fading away.
He is not interested in your life. If your partner is completely indifferent to what is happening in your life, if he is not interested in your affairs, then be sure that love has passed for him.
You annoy him constantly.
Your partner stares at other women, but at the same time you are not jealous. Jealousy is, of course, not an indicator of love. But the feeling of the animal instinct of owning something inherent in men evolution. If your partner does not particularly hide his interest in other women, while he compares you with them (and the comparison is not in your favor), then most likely you no longer interest him.

How to understand that the guy fell out of love? Personal experience in this video:

Did the girl stop loving?

How to understand that the girl you fell out of love?

For the strong half of humanity it is also difficult to accept the fact that love from their partner has passed.

Signs of this unpleasant event can be.

constant irritation from the girl (even on trifles);
lack of physical contact, its avoidance (this concerns not only sex, but also ordinary touches, kisses, hugs, etc.);
avoiding eye contact when talking;
permanent refusals from meetings and dates, excuses and deception;
more frequent quarrels and conflicts over trifles;
disrespect your girlShe constantly makes fun of you in front of your friends or even unfamiliar people.

Did your wife cool you?

How to understand that the wife fell out of love? For men who are married, it is also important to know when to start sounding the alarm. If the love from the wife dried up, how to understand it, by what signs to determine?

Actually a woman can behave in many ways just like a man who has fallen out of love: she will be annoyed by every little thing in you, she will try to avoid physical contact in any form, she will touch you in front of your friends and acquaintances, your communication will be reduced to a simple “How are you? Fine".

In addition, a woman who has fallen in love begins to “count” the contribution to your relationship, she begins to point out your past mistakes to you, emphasizing that she made a mistake by marrying you.

Last straw in such a "relationship" may be the appearance of a lover in your spouse.

Love is not constant.

Despite the abundance of all sorts of dramas and romantic comedies, in real life everything has its ending, even the most turbulent romance.

If you notice that something has changed in your partner, or a doubt has crept into yourselves, then it is worth analyzing your relationship and finding out if the warning signs of the end of the relationship have appeared.