An experienced woman will immediately understand how a man treats her. She feels skin of interest in her skin. But a girl who is not versed in love games, who can hardly understand even her own emotions, is often unable to discern the sincere sympathy of a young man. In addition, the guys hide feelings for fear of appearing ridiculous or rejected.
We define the problem
You meet with him often: at school or at work, at a disco, you have mutual friends or acquaintances. You like this young man and it is important to know how he treats you. You want to be near, but you are afraid to take the first step. You need confidence in reciprocal sympathy, and you are looking for signs that will help you soberly assess the situation and understand whether the feelings are mutual. We will understand!
There is nothing complicated about signals coming from a guy who likes you. It is easy to find out what he feels at your approach: posture, gestures, behavior “read” even without words, because these signs are not controlled by consciousness and obvious to an attentive observer.
The first "bells" of interest
There is no doubt that the guy distinguishes you from the circle of acquaintances and is happy to start a close relationship if he:
- "accidentally" appears in the same places as you, looking for you with your eyes and trying to get closer or find a convenient observation point;
- looks at you, trying to keep eye contact, or shyly averts her eyes, catching a return glance;
- interested in your persona, trying to find out about you from mutual friends;
- trying to infiltrate your "comfort zone", to be closer, accidentally touch.
If at your appearance his friends giggle and make fun of a young man, it means that they know about his tender feelings.
Are watching
The guy who has sympathy for the girl begins to carefully monitor her appearance, hair and clothes, to use perfumery. In her presence, “cleaning feathers” begins - he shakes dust off clothes, passes by the mirror, straightens his hair, unzips a button on the collar of his shirt. The young man tries to look taller and stronger: straightens his shoulders, sticks out his chest and draws in his stomach.
Strange metamorphoses occur with a man in love - he starts to behave atypically: he speaks or does stupid things, hesitates, blushes, stumbles or, on the contrary, becomes excessively stinging and chooses the person he likes as an object for ridicule.
The young man almost does not turn his back to the girl, "mirrors" her gestures and posture. During the conversation, the guy tries to be closer, bends to his girlfriend, ostensibly in order to hear her better, trying to touch his hand, elbow, or even embrace his interlocutor. A man in love, without realizing it, demonstrates to potential rivals that the young lady is already taken.
Listen
Men remember that a woman loves ears. In your presence, the young man will use all the eloquence, charm, and will gush forth with funny stories, jokes and anecdotes, sidelong watching the reaction. The guy will tell about his family and best friends, lay out "as in the spirit of" shortcomings and weaknesses, but do not miss the chance to boast achievements, waiting for praise.
But if a young man is only talking about himself, it’s worth thinking: maybe the talker just found an attentive listener and wants to speak out? It is not difficult to find out about true intentions: a sure sign of that you like a guy will be a sincere interest in your personal life, hobbies and plans for the future.
"Have we met somewhere?" Hearing this phrase from an unfamiliar guy,
it's safe to say that he liked you!
We analyze
A young man commits acts that "signal" that you are not indifferent to him. He changes his plans, if he needs help, or if he has the opportunity to hang out, he remains in a difficult situation with you. He introduces you to friends and relatives. He sacrifices time, money and personal interests for you.
The guy bravely tolerates whims and whims, tolerates flaws. During a dispute in a circle of acquaintances, he takes your side, even if you are wrong. He cares, protects and renders signs of attention. In the end, the guy just smiles upon meeting - wide and sincere.
If you feel that the young man is disposed towards you, confidentially shares his thoughts and dreams, is ready to listen for hours and take an active part in your life, if he is still timidly touching, fearing to offend, but clearly feeling the need for contact - help him! Let the guy know that you like him too, let him know about it. Be open and benevolent and the long-awaited declaration of love will soon be heard, filling the hearts of lovers with delight and joy.
