A healthy, successful and attractive man is always popular with women, regardless of whether he has a ring on the ring finger of his right hand. A wise wife, of course, will try to prevent the appearance of a mistress, however, it is not always possible to avoid fleeting intrigues on the side.
The reasons for treason vary depending on the situation in the family, but more often the banal boredom pushes the man into feats. The former passion cools, the family routine is depressing, and the man breaks free, obeying instincts.
The content of the article:
Changing attitudes towards you
Changes in appearance
Is the game worth the candle?
Psychologist's comment
How can you tell if your husband is cheating on you? Whatever the reason for treason, many wives, thanks to the natural intuition, feel the appearance of another woman almost immediately. Only vague doubts are not always a reason to clarify the relationship. Before interrogating a husband, it is necessary to find evidence.
Treason always means change. Observe the behavior of the husband and draw conclusions.
Changes in day mode
Previously, your husband came home from work at the same time, and in the last couple of weeks he began to call and warn you that he would be late? And the reasons are often quite dubious ...
Maybe he is preparing a surprise for you. But it is also likely that he had another one. Agree, it is necessary to spend some time for a mistress, so suddenly started, but regular delays of her husband can say a lot.
Changing attitudes towards you
A clear signal that the husband has started a relationship on the side is his frequent unwillingness to fulfill his marital duty, citing fatigue or stress. But while her husband does not complain about any difficulties at work and often silent.
If earlier the husband showed a hot temperament, but now he has stopped paying attention to you, and you do not observe any obvious reasons for serious stress, it’s time to sound the alarm.
A cause for concern may be unreasonable bouts of irritation in your faithful, which you have not previously observed. Groundless raising of the voice, contrived reproaches say that he probably feels guilty and tries to defend himself against this unpleasant sensation, throwing out his aggression on you.
Changing the financial situation of the family
You may notice that the husband began to bring less money, and this is easily explained. The presence of a mistress requires certain material costs. If the money in the family has become noticeably less - this is another signal of treason.
Changes in appearance
New toilet water, bought by her husband, more frequent shaving, careful examination of your own reflection in the mirror before leaving - this desire to please women.
These signs should be alarming, if earlier your husband did not show such zeal to be beautiful.
Men usually begin to care for themselves at the very beginning of love relationships, because they want to present themselves from the best side.
Changes in the zone of personal space
Today it is difficult to imagine a person without a mobile phone or account in social networks. It is likely that the communication of your husband with his passion occurs in the network.
Having an affair can be expressed in the fact that the husband gets annoyed when you pick up his phone. Of course, he will erase all the evidence, or even write it down as "Uncle Sasha" or "locksmith", but the concern that you may discover something will remain.
He can also begin to jealously check your phone or social network page: many men become especially jealous when they themselves have a "stigma in a gun."
Is the game worth the candle?
How many times have they told the world who are looking for will always find. Many women love to play detectives, trying to catch her husband and find out what he allegedly hides from her.
It often happens that a man doesn’t think at all to cheat on his wife, but her constant attacks, jealousy, scandals, incredulity force him to go "on the side" in order not to be guilty without guilt.
Every woman has her own opinion, how to behave in a situation when suspicions of treason appear. It is impossible to give universal advice, as in this situation there are too many factors that can influence the outcome of events: the nature of the relationship between the spouses, the financial situation, the presence of children, health, the ability of the wife to support herself and children in case of divorce and much more.
Some prefer not to know about her husband’s infidelities at all and not to dig into his dirty laundry, protecting his marriage and his own nerves. Others, with the slightest doubt, are satisfied with this search or interrogation with predilection.
One thing is clear: regardless of the circumstances, it is always painful for a woman to realize that she was preferred to another.
Therefore, before you go on the search for evidence, honestly answer the question: "Do I want to know about it? And what will I do if my suspicions are not groundless?". Agree, it is always better to think first, and then begin to act.
Alexandra, Voronezh
