A question of concern with its ethical side. The question with the obvious answer: you should not look for a married woman lover. He, or, more precisely, they - they will find themselves. This law is immutable. In men, the excitement of rivalry is inherent, and if a man is needed by a man, there will be others who will want her attention.
The institution of lovers and mistresses has always existed. And that which is generally accepted is considered the norm of behavior. (Norma from the word "normal"). Someone, it is true, noticed that the problems in the relationship arise not because of the fact of betrayal, but because of the fact that it is revealed. Of course, there are exceptions to the general rules. Some belong to the category of exceptions happy, but, as they say, who is aware, he is armed. And knowledge is not superfluous.
So, the reasons why a married woman should look for a lover:
Reason number 1. State of the search will help you to be in good physical shape, and, as they say, in a fighting mood. In any case, an active and proactive life position, even according to the principle: I will not catch up, so I will warm up, it will do you good.
Reason number 2. The benefits of an active search for a lover can be felt in a relationship with her husband, who, seeing your activity (hopefully not excessive), will remain in good shape, as they say.
Reason number 3. Looking for a lover is needed in order to keep this process under total control. If you are not looking for a lover, this does not mean that he will not find you himself. In the second case, uncontrollable relations are definitely waiting for you, which can lead to undesirable consequences.
Reason number 4. It may seem far-fetched, but nevertheless, any kind of communication greatly broadens the mind and makes you a more interesting person, competent in matters of relationships. And here it is not a sin to note that the more complex and ambiguous the status of relations is, the more deeply it is necessary to understand them in order to be able to observe their interests.
Now let's move from theory to practice and see how to implement such a desperate plan. First of all, I must say that looking for a lover in your circle is a very bad idea (and most often it goes like this). The most reliable way is to catch him on the road. At the same time, remember, no one calls you to vote on the outskirts of the city at night. Best for this purpose fit the second half of the day, the day of the week - preferably Monday. So, arm yourself with your charm and - in search of additional motivation.
Anya, Podolsk
