For reference: an infantile person is a person who behaves inappropriately to his age, that is, childishly (in a psychological sense). As a rule, he is not ready to take on the responsibilities and obligations that should be taken by age, and therefore such a man or woman has problems in the relationship.
The person with whom you linked your fate - an infantile man who behaves like a child? So treat him accordingly. If you are the eldest in your relationship, try to be patient and be sensible, do not scold for sins and do not demand much from him. When he sees that he is not obligated to anything and does not impose his will, he will open up for changes and begin to listen to your words.
No matter how it sounds, try to become for him a model of an adult. For this it is important to change yourself, to become self-confident, an authority for him. If he sees that you are satisfied with life and self-confident, he will want to become the same. Unbeknownst to you, he will gradually take all the responsibility on your shoulders.
This is definitely very difficult. You will want to return to the past life, allow yourself to be a child from time to time and move away from real life. After all, sometimes you want to allow yourself to relax, forget about problems for a while and be happy with your partner. Now it is strictly prohibited! You have become a parent for your infantile man, a role model. Seeing your acceptance of such behavior, he will be convinced of the possibility of such an attitude to life.
Avoiding reality and postponing problems is not an option. All questions and problems that arise should be solved on time. A person suffering from infantilism, he understands this himself, therefore, he often has a feeling of guilt, which he tries to suppress, hiding again in his world.
Thus, no matter how hard it is, deciding to take on this mission, we must go all the way and not allow ourselves to go into childhood. In this case, it is necessary to remain happy, otherwise you will not be believed.
Another effective method that can help you is visualization. Imagine your life just as you would like it to be. Imagine what your partner has become, what a wonderful relationship you have and complete mutual understanding. Believe in the desired, and it will certainly come true.
It is worth paying attention to another important point: psychologists believe that we often project our shortcomings onto others. This means that the negative qualities we notice in others are actually our own hidden flaws. Therefore it is worth looking, first of all, to yourself. Perhaps what annoys you in a loved one is also present in you.
In addition, in our life nothing is accidental. If God brought you together with this man, then it was necessary. It often happens that this happens for joint improvement. It is worth thinking about who needs to start a change.
And most importantly, do not forget: be generous, and you will definitely be reckoned.
