Billions of daisies fell victim to a simple question: does a young man feel sympathy for a girl. On the reliability of this method is not necessary to guess. It is good that simpler methods are now available, the results of which are trustworthy. Most of them are based on the ability to observe and draw conclusions.
All people are different. The only unmistakable way to determine the sympathy of any guy does not exist. The fact that for one - an extraordinary act, for the other - everyday flirting.
Signs of sympathy in speech
One of the foundations of tender feelings is trust. It can manifest itself both in speech and in actions. The desire to share feelings or experiences shows a person’s desire to involve someone in his life as much as possible. In doing so, he will expect confidence in response, and be interested in what does not apply to a stranger.
It is important to know and remember that it is for this guy really important or secret. After all, he shares some information with everyone, the other trusts only his relatives.
Man subconsciously associates himself with those who are dear to him. And then, more often than necessary, in the speech uses the pronouns “we”, “us”, “us”. He identifies shared memories, events, details, and talks about it, trying to evoke warm feelings in the interlocutor. These thoughts are really important to him, so the warmth in his voice can not be hidden.
Favorite girl - always an object of attention. The young man will mark with an unobtrusive compliment the most subtle changes in the image of a pretty girl. We are not talking about changing the hair color to fiery-red, or purple - everyone will notice this change. But another lipstick, hairstyle, handbag - only the one whose habit has included watching a girl.
Deeds of a boy in love
In addition, trust can manifest itself in actions. For example, if a young man permits to drive his car, or even offers to teach how to drive, this indicates his feelings. Another bright manifestation of trust - please help with restoring order. So a man shows that he wants to entrust a girl a big role in his life.
Willingness to take care and help is not just a manifestation of good manners, but the search for the opportunity to do something for the object of sympathy. So the man is trying to establish himself in front of his beloved. She seems to him especially fragile and gentle, therefore, needs support.
Unconscious gestures
Love look can be seen even from the side. It is almost impossible to restrain him, because looking at his beloved is sometimes the only available joy for a lover. Therefore, even the most timid young man can get caught on this. Such a look is very attached, while if the beloved pay attention to him, in most cases the boy will be embarrassed: he will turn red and quickly avert his eyes. The exception will be the one who is confident in himself, and that the feelings are likely to be mutual.
A close look is an indicator of strong feelings, and not only love. Often, it shows an aggressive attitude. Therefore, in itself, it shows only strong emotions, and not their direction.
Another non-verbal sign is the desire to repeat the gestures of the beloved. If she adjusts her hair - his hands involuntarily reach for the hair. The advantage of this sign is that it is easy to check - it is enough to fix the jacket or hair. A complete repetition of the gesture is not necessary - more often, simply jerking hands in a suppressed desire to copy the action.
It is almost impossible not to notice changes in posture. In an attempt to be noticed, the guy will try to look taller, so he will try to make his back smoother, and his shoulders wider.
A pose can say a lot about a person’s attitude. The body itself will be more deployed to the one to whom sympathy is experienced, as well as the feet. In the position of the body is read the desire for contact - the hands are directed towards the one who is of the most interest.
The desire to touch, most likely, will find a more tangible manifestation: by the way, a hand laid on the waist, or an attempt to remove non-existent debris from the hair. If you touch your beloved, it seems impossible, then the thrust applies to its objects - a scarf, a phone, a bag. Checking is simple - just put your keys next to you, and if the guy takes them to "see", you can put forward suggestions about sympathy.
Important details
Women tend to build beliefs on an imaginary basis. Therefore, to believe that the guy is experiencing tender feelings is only if his behavior and speech, there are several signs at once, and they manifested themselves more than once.
Determining the meaning of non-verbal gestures is an entire science. Therefore, if the assumptions are based only on them, it is better to wait for some other manifestations.
Do not forget about the comparison: how the young man behaves with the other girls. If flirting and touching them is a common thing for him, it is better to stay away. Such, most likely, having met his one and only, will be timid and lost.
If there is no doubt in the feelings of the guy, each girl is given a choice: wait, gently make it clear that there is no chance or unobtrusive help.
