How to find yourself
Many people often argue about how to find yourself and how to find your “I”. This question is rhetorical and has a deep meaning. Many factors, most often, such as depression, dissatisfaction with life, self-doubt, unloved work, family problems, chronic fatigue, can push a person to think about his purpose. This question can arise absolutely in any person, regardless of his social status or age.
Past present Future…
It is great if you are thinking about searching for your destination, that you would like to find and find your “I”, inner harmony. Some people make the mistake of starting searches in their past, using their memories and memories as a storehouse of past victories, achievements, the time when everything seemed to turn out and a feeling of inner harmony was present. If you act in this way, then you will continue to live in the past, precisely by past victories without finding yourself here and now.
It will be difficult for you to adapt to circumstances in the present, therefore, it will be more difficult not only to find inner harmony, but also to achieve your goals. Life will stop at one place, and you will be on a subconscious level to indulge yourself with pleasant memories from the past. To avoid this, you need to analyze your past and understand what made you happy, satisfied, what made you happy, what circumstances or emotions helped you to feel like a full-fledged person who is in harmony with himself.
Perhaps this is the first step to how to find yourself. There is also a reverse side of the medal, when the future becomes the main support in the search for its purpose. Suppose you have high hopes for your future, make plans, but only live with them and dreams that someday your plans are realized, but you don’t have much to do in the present. It should be understood that such tactics will only lead to an endless search for their mission, to chronic depression and misunderstanding not only of themselves, but also of the people and the world around them. Consequently, the second step towards the successful attainment of inner harmony, its purpose, will be the determination of its future.
To do this, you should understand yourself in the present, what are your feelings and emotions today, what does not suit you in your life, what would you like to change. And vice versa, determine what you like and satisfy you, what makes you happier and kinder, from which you have an incentive to live and love farther away from yourself and those around you.
After you have successfully dealt with your past and future, you need to learn how to live in the present. This is the third and most important step. In order to come to an understanding of how to find yourself, you just need to learn how to live here and now. Yes, it is not as easy to do as to say, but it is quite possible. And only by finding yourself in the present, today, you will become a truly happy and harmonious person. You need to appreciate every moment in your life, everything that happens to you now and either be happy about it, or draw conclusions and go further in life.
In order to find yourself, to find an internal dialogue with yourself, listen to your heart more often, do not ignore what it tells you, it knows exactly what you need.
Do not be afraid of change and your desires. Feel free to go through life and try as many times as you can, until you achieve your goal. Become more determined and courageous.
Take responsibility for your life and for everything that happens to you. Only you decide what kind of life you live and only you can change everything, it is only your life and you have one.
Appreciate what you have, rejoice in what has already been achieved or what you already have. Be thankful and then you can get even more.
Love yourself and the people around you. Remember that happiness is not in the past, which does not change, not in the future, which has not yet arrived, happiness in the present, within you. Begin to smile and rejoice more often, do good deeds, find a favorite thing that will bring you pleasure.
Only you yourself can correctly answer the question "How to find yourself?", You only need to listen to yourself and try to hear what your "I" tells you.
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