To win a man, women have their own tricks. But there are whole benefits for this. Naturally, the conquests of men - this is still half the battle, it must somehow be kept near him. It is no secret that long-term relationships between a man and a woman sometimes end in separation and divorce. There are also betrayals that are not dependent on you women.
However, in most cases, everything is in your hands: you yourself can fight for your happiness. If you really love your man and parting with him will be a great loss for you, then you will certainly need the help of a specialist who will tell you how to keep your loved one close.
Of course, for all women there is no definite answer to this question, since each woman has her own character, and the situations that lead to separation are different. According to family psychologists, any woman of her chosen one can both push away and keep. Psychologists have developed general advice for womenhow to keep a man.Here are some of them.
- You need to take care of yourself. Being married, most women begin to relax. Initially, women justify such behavior by the fact that they are on maternity leave and there is simply no time left for them to look after themselves. However, as practice shows, many women continue to treat their appearance after the decree as well. During the decree, they have become accustomed to gaining extra weight, cellulite for them becomes native, and some even refuse from beauty and make-up salons - why waste time and money on it when my husband loves me and that? Unfortunately, this is not the best way to keep near your loved one. Over time, he begins to look at such a woman not as his wife, but as a piece of home furniture. That is why you should always remember that first of all you are a woman!
- Pay attention to your clothes. Here especially plays the role of underwear. A man should constantly experience the feeling that for him you are trying to be constantly attractive and sexy. And this he must constantly feel.
- Become diverse. Every person needs a novelty from time to time. After all, the constant, though good, is boring very quickly. Therefore, in your appearance, change something. Moreover, you should not change it radically, but you should not neglect it either. Change your hairstyle, makeup, hair color, manicure and other little things.
- Conqueror's instinct for men - the main thing. Following this statement, constantly make sure that he again tried to conquer you.
- Become more meaningful in his eyes. Artificially inflate your price. For this, change something in yourself. And you should not be afraid to experiment. In order to keep the men of your dreams close to you, for him you must become the ideal and irreplaceable woman many men dream of.
- Make him jealous. Sometimes a man must be given a reason for jealousy, but do not overdo it. Let it be insignificant, but still an occasion. Here the main thing to remember is that on the basis of jealousy a lot of all kinds of nonsense and even crimes are committed. To cause jealousy - this does not mean that he needs to change. It is enough to make it clear to your chosen one that he is not the only one and other men show interest in you. In this case, he will definitely try to keep you close to him.
- Do not love your husband too much. One rule should be for you: you can only love yourself too much. Only in this case you will experience much less frustration. In if a woman because of a big love dissolves in a man, then they do not like it. Men like women who have self-respect, with character.
- Home comfort. Home a man should go with impatience and pleasure. Prepare a delicious dinner, do not download it from the threshold with your problems until he tells about his, if any, during the day.
- Intrigue a loved one. In order to keep a loved one near you, you should not reveal it completely in front of him. Let them constantly look for riddles. You have to prove to him that you still have something unknown to him. Try to call in his head a lot of questions to which he will constantly look for an answer. Give him hope that you will soon be revealed to him. But to do this is not necessary. Make it quite simple: create some understatement. Start him on the phone to intrigue with the fact that you have learned something about him, and then abruptly end the conversation, saying that they are calling you on the second line and you can talk to him only in the evening. The main thing is to make a man languish in anticipation. Keep him in ignorance as long as possible, and then you can tell him some nonsense from his childhood, for example, that he was afraid of frogs.
Of course, these tips are abouthow to keep a man, use only as needed. If you abuse them, then you just simply stop believing.
