The date goes well. And he and she are delighted with each other. It is time to say goodbye, emotions going wild. Only one thing remains - a kiss. Half a minute of merging the lips - and ... people disperse on different sides, awkwardly saying “before the meeting” with the understanding that there will be no meeting anymore. It turns out that one unsuccessful step can eliminate dozens of advantages. Then how to kiss properly, giving pleasure to yourself and the person you like?
Before and after the kiss
Kissing itself is the culmination. However, in any story there is still a plot, the development of action, ending. Alas, without them the climax is impossible to create at all. Without them, it is - a simple physical action.
Before kiss It is important to make sure that the partner is configured for this step, really wants it. This is evidenced by the following factors:
- dilated pupils, reduced breathing;
- parched lips, which a person periodically licks;
- rapid heartbeat (pulsating streak on the left side of the neck);
- attempts to be close to face;
- look at the lips, biting their own;
- conversations on personal, romantic themes.
Now how better complete the process, how to behave after him Often, after people have broken away from each other, they are embarrassed, do not know what to say or do. This creates confusion, makes us perform strange actions against the background of confusion. Someone laughs nervously, someone says incoherent nonsense or phrases out of place. How to act in order not to spoil the impression:
- slowly move away from the partner, smoothly lifting the eyelids;
- without departing, look straight into the eyes of the person;
- smile slightly, giving a smile of warmth, ease;
- make a compliment, step back a little or once again touch lips.
After that, you can switch to a light, uncomplicated topic, so that the nervousness subsides a bit. Or gently say goodbye - hold hands, straighten his / her “wrong lying” hair, thank for a wonderful time.
How to kiss right
Find a place for your hands.
Standing with your hands down or, especially, tucked into your pockets is not a good idea, as it gives out nervousness or even mistakenly hints at indifference. Therefore, it is enough to find one point on the body of the partner and leave the brush there. Even better, start gently and gently stroking the skin through the clothes. We can not allow vulgarity, if this is one of the first kisses.
Search for sensitive points.
To give spice to the action, you can try to find erogenous zones. Most often it is the neck, the nape, the supraorbital region, the loin. However, each person has their own preferences, so the points may differ. For this it is important to adhere to the following rule.
Monitor the reaction of the pair.
Even memorized, exactly reproduced movements of Don Juan and Mata Hari may not please someone very much. Therefore, if a girl or boy is clearly withdrawn, this is a sure sign that tactics will have to be changed. Conversely, the desire to cling, shiver, “goosebumps” indicate that it is better to continue in the same spirit.
Do not contradict yourself.
What is usually expected from a romantic nature, slightly naive, refined? Correctly, ease, softness, tenderness. If such a person suddenly starts playing passions with his mouth, it will look at least strange. Better behave naturally. Moreover, both romantics and passionate people have their own advantages.
Cover up eyes.
Most kissing close their eyelids. However, a small percentage of those remaining still prefer to do everything with open eyes, watching a partner. It has its own charm. However, it is advisable to make sure that the look does not seem strange or repulsive. To ensure a positive effect, it is enough to cover the eyelids, leaving a small crack between them.
How not to kiss
Simulate a vacuum cleaner.
A wide-open mouth, a vacuum created by lips and cheeks, and puffing when kissing pleasure are not exactly delivered. But they give out someone who does not know how to kiss or is very nervous. Passion in this manner is not, despite the stereotype. Instead, there is only persistence and absolute disregard for the comfort of a partner.
It is better to curb the fever, cover your mouth, reduce the pressure. A glow can be conveyed with hugs or lips.
Share the inner ocean.
The exchange of substances contained in saliva is beneficial for immunity. However, when he or she rushes to meet with a liter of fluid in the mouth, it becomes uncomfortable.
Stop. Swallow saliva - then kiss. What if such a problem arose at the height of the lesson? It is enough to tear off for a while, smoothly changing the tilt of the head to the other side, and at the same time have time to eliminate the “increased humidity”.
Dramatically play in public.
Languid sighs, whining, whine, and other similar sounds are best left for the drama club or at least the bed. At the time of the merger of the lips such intonations distract from the lessons, they sound ridiculous.
If you want to show that the kiss was pleasant, you can say this directly or ask for an encore - this is the best praise.
Use the language for other purposes.
“Mmm, yes, like this ... (smack) You're just super! This happiness - to kiss you ... (smack) What are you doing with me? (chmoook) Just a minute ... (chmoooook) Great! Wow, that was cool! ”.
Ambiguous, falsely, frivolously. Does anyone like this? Hardly. Such an action is enjoyed silently, feeling the effect of each cell of the body. But to listen to the “news bulletin” of a partner or its untimely ode not everyone wants.
How to kiss on the lips
Act gradually.
Immediately “fall on the lips” with a deep kiss is not recommended. In television melodramas such shots skip often. However, life is not a movie, there is a risk of getting into an awkward, even traumatic situation. You can properly bite your teeth, pinch your lip, bite your tongue. And if the partner twitches in surprise, then the number of potential injuries will increase.
It would be nice to start with a softer, easier option, gradually increasing the pressure, the pace, if there is a desire.
Do not forget about the tips and contours of the lips.
Often, kissing pay attention to only one lip or both lips entirely, without touching their individual segments. And in vain.
Give easy kiss to the corner of the mouth - It means to express your affection, care, tenderness.
Tickle contours - show playfulness, add coquetry.
And you can carefully hold tongue on the inside of the upper lip and discover another erogenous zone.
Experiment.
The main action when kissing - contact of the lips, their grip. However, if you limit the entire list of potential movements to only two steps, kissing will cease to be art.
It is desirable to change technology. Not only pressure or duration, but also other features. Engage the tongue, try biting, sucking lips, their friction. For those who want something unusual, suit Eskimo kiss or “fluttering butterfly”.
Try to hold back sounds a bit.
Everyone was confronted with strange sounds when kissing. Choukane, smacking, champing, other similar noises can cause laughter or knock a romantic mood.
Fully focus on creating silence is not necessary. However, you can slightly hold back a couple of sounds. To do this, it is enough to relax the lips and try less to pull them forward with a straw.
Use the breath.
It brings new sensations to standard actions. No, breathing like a steam horse is still not the best idea. But to do it gently, gently warming the cheek or lips of your partner is a great way to improve your skills, to give a new portion of pleasure.
A light whiff on the neck, neck or behind the ear causes a pleasant shiver.
How to kiss a girl
There is no unambiguous approach in this matter. To guess with the option, you have to know a little of your darling. Fortunately, women often prefer to kiss in just two different ways, which, if necessary, can be partially combined.
Tenderness
Almost every girl in her heart passionately dreams of a guy who will treat her with awe, affection. She wants to feel fragile, sophisticated flower in the hands of someone who can appreciate this beauty, vulnerability. Accordingly, such person will like touch, full of care, attention. Their characteristic features are:
- softness, slowness of contact;
- lightly stroking your partner's waist, cheeks, arms or neck;
- rare or weak language use;
- “Kissing track” - a few short lip touches lined up (for example, from the ear to the corner of the mouth);
- long deep looks before and after kissing.
Everyone has their own notion of tenderness, so these features are not considered constant. You can use only some of them or completely all.
There is nothing wrong with adding your own gesture. For example, gently tuck the strand of a girl by the ear, kiss her for ever and rub lightly with the tips of her noses.
Dominance
Women love to feel like heroines of novels, in which guys act as courageous knights, and ladies - as their sophisticated muses. In a modern way, it sounds like this: men are leaders, and girls are led. “Like a stone wall” - this is what such persons aspire to do. Their perfect kiss has the following characteristics:
- hugs, force expresses passion, but does not hurt;
- often a young man is taller than a girl (if he is short, he can simply stand on a step or another projection);
- the guy himself sets the technique, manages the process (for example, he can press the chosen one to the wall or slightly pull her hair to lay back her head and kiss her neck);
- glances with a slight veil of predominance, self-confidence (it is important not to bend too much).
The meaning of this option is to show your strength. It is pleasant for women to realize that their powerful, invincible partners cannot resist the feminine charm.
How to kiss a guy
Men, usually stingy on the open manifestation of emotions, are also not indifferent to good kisses. Like girls, guys love different techniques. A little learning your partner, you can easily determine how best to kiss him.
Easy erotica
Keyword - easy. Otherwise, each merging of the lips will end in bed. That in itself is not bad. However, sometimes you just want a nice kiss and nothing more. For such cases, and will need blotches thin sexual overtones. Signs of such a technique:
- stroking the torso, arms, head or neck;
- biting, sucking lips, ear lobes;
- tickling lips with tongue, applying French style;
- Breath play (light blows on sensitive points);
- launching fingers into the hair of the chosen one;
- coquetry, tease, flirt.
With the right performance, the kiss will become more passionate, deep, strong. He can also step in at a pace.
To make the whole process stop only at an innocent lesson and not go further, it is better to use this version briefly. If the time to stop did not work, enough:
- weaken the pressure of the lips;
- stop using the language;
- stop the hands at one point (on the chest or waist of the pair, for example);
- slow down the pace, go on light touch.
This transition from passion to lightness, tenderness, which smoothly reduces the intensity of emotions, helps to pacify raging hormones.
By the way, the technique works in the opposite direction, when you want from simple “cement workers” to move on to something more serious, “unobtrusively” to get your partner.
Touching charm
This technique can easily be used by cute, romantic girls. It will also suit flirts who love passion and flirt.
Guys love to feel strong defenders, and when girls allow themselves to be nice, vulnerable, weak (in moderation), this feeling only increases. How can you act to get a similar effect:
- “Make eyes”, playfully wriggle out of his lips;
- nice to be embarrassed or surprised;
- timidly, sneaking back kisses;
- “Hide” from his gaze or lips, buried in his neck;
- put his hands on his chest and playfully squint.
But to imitate the voice of a child, put a finger in his mouth, make faces or drag something in the same vein is not worth it. Not everyone likes this, and sometimes it looks very strange. The rule of the "golden mean" is valid here, so you have to do without replaying.
Who knows how to kiss properly, increases your chances of a relationship, re-meeting and, obviously, sex. Having mastered the secrets of such a pleasant art, you can make another person lose his head, forget about negativity, fall in love, feel interest, desire. That is why it is not embarrassing to learn different tricks, to hone your skills in this matter, but to be commendable and even beneficial.
