The manifestation of tender feelings in tactile contact is an important stage in the development of relationships. That is why someone may not have enough determination to kiss his pretty girl. And before that, in turn, may be asked: how to hint a guy on a kiss, so as not to seem obtrusive and give him courage?
At the guys with only one thought can arise a variety of fears. What if a girl thinks his behavior is boorish? Or does she not like him so much? The prospect of a slap in the face is not happy either. If you treat such thoughts with understanding, it is easier to figure out how to help a young man to gain courage.
Mimicry
Interestingly, the verifiers - specialists in facial expressions and gestures, note: if a person, looking into his eyes, lick or bite his lip, he probably wants to kiss the one he is looking at. Man does this unconsciously. The interlocutor's brain also captures these non-verbal signs, therefore, he cannot disregard the girl’s lips.
Sometimes girls draw attention to their lips, bringing their hands to them: biting a finger, for example. It really works, but under several conditions: if the hands are well-groomed, and if you do not abuse this gesture. It should look as natural as possible.
95% of people say they feel when someone looks at them. Although this fact has no clear explanation, it is impossible to argue with him, but you can use it. If you look directly into the eyes of a young man - he will definitely pay attention, and if you then turn your eyes to his lips, most likely, the hint will be understood.
Just do it with a smile. Otherwise, the gaze may be misinterpreted. A tender smile on his lips not only attracts, but also gives confidence.
A good way to show sympathy is as close as possible. It does not mean “stick” to it. But, as a rule, there is always a reason to violate his personal space: whisper something in his ear, put his head on his shoulder.
Touch
A kiss is definitely not the first tactile contact between people who feel mutual sympathy. It all starts with touches that are not so sensual, but have their own meaning. For example, a handshake, a pat on the shoulder are often perceived as a manifestation of friendly feelings. But if a girl touches the hand or clothes of a young person during a conversation, this may indicate a warmer feeling.
As a rule, a person repeats the gestures of the one he likes. Therefore, most likely, the guy will touch back. And if at the same time the girl smiles, it will show that his touch is pleasant to her. It is likely that the next touch will be a kiss.
If you don’t have enough courage to touch a guy during a conversation, you can do it inadvertently, for example, by passing on something, or offering to fix clothes - and do it without waiting for an answer.
Even a friendly gesture can be turned into a flirt. For example, when shaking hands, hold your hand slightly. Hugging the guy goodbye, you can touch his face with his cheek. Such a touch will help him understand that the girl is not against the manifestations of tenderness.
Reason to kiss
For everything to be truly pleasant and harmonious, we need a suitable atmosphere. Sometimes it appears by itself, but sometimes it needs to be created.
One of the ways is to visit the most romantic places in the city together: it can be a bridge where the newlyweds hang locks, a “bench of lovers” and so on. Such cozy places cast corresponding conversations, and, as a result, actions.
Sometimes you can go to the movies together, now almost in every movie there are romantic episodes. However, if the young man is naturally shy by nature, he is unlikely to decide for the first time to kiss his beloved in public.
Sometimes you can take advantage of the situation to make the kiss look simple and natural. For example, a kiss on the cheek, as a sign of gratitude for the flowers, or the fact that she was very bored.
What not to do
Usually men do not like traces of makeup on their face. Therefore, no matter how sexy the bright red color of the lips seems, it is better to give up lipstick that evening when you want to provoke a guy to kiss.
If the relationship began quite recently, do not try too hard with non-verbal signs. Firstly, it looks vulgar, the behavior of the girl is unnatural and holds down even more. Secondly, it may be misunderstood. So, instead of the expected tenderness, you can get hostility.
Forcing a guy to constantly seek warmth and attention is also imprudent. If, in response to his efforts, he does not get a smile and softness, the interest will quickly fade away, or he will simply consider himself unnecessary. There is no shame in helping him. However, if there is no confidence in his feelings, it is worthwhile to weigh all possible risks well.
The manifestation of tenderness is important at any stage of the relationship. And a kiss is its most vivid manifestation.
