The Internet, magazines and other media are full of images of long-legged slender beauties with a model appearance. Elastic buttocks, healthy radiant skin, a shock of long shiny hair, waist like Barbie and breasts of the fifth size are indispensable attributes of an ideal modern woman. Good or bad explains the leading coach of the Academy of female wisdom ALMA Tamara Ra.
It must be said that not a single epoch has set such stringent requirements for the standards of female beauty. In the fashion were pyshnotelye beauties, and semi-subtle little ladies. But the new era has gone even further. It forces women to make unprecedented transformations with their bodies.
What are ideals?
Society always sets its canons of beauty. They are dictated by certain trends in culture, fashion, socio-political situation and so on. Now the mass digital culture has gone as far as realistic from realistic requests. Women just need to change, distort their natural essence and physiology.
The ideal is the anime or heroine of popular video games. A doll or robot can be any kind of beautiful creature externally. A real woman cannot compete with them. But it comes for the sake of male attention. And here come to the aid of various procedures, beauty injections, the most exotic methods. In extreme cases, a woman decides on the most serious step - plastic surgery.
Who and why makes them?
The most popular plastic surgery is an increase in the breast, lip volume and change in the shape of the buttocks. And women with real defects or physiological defects do not fall under the knife at all. The most beautiful, as a rule, have the most complexes.
Why is all this necessary? Today, every sphere of life is commercialized. It is difficult to avoid the temptation to earn on the largest part of the population of the planet. Women aged 20-40 years are the main consumers of the beauty and fashion industry. They are solvent and subject to psycho-emotional impact. Hundreds of thousands of people around the world spend millions on the purchase of magic creams, trendy bags and hair extensions.
Does the pursuit of appearance bring happiness?
Some of the women, thanks to their beauty and the efforts of their boyfriends, turned into dolls, a walking aid for plastic surgery. Looking at photos on Instagram, you understand that it is difficult to distinguish one from the other. They all look the same: with protruding cheekbones, big lips and eyes ... But there is nothing in their eyes: no shadow of feeling, no emotion. Empty puppet look behind decorative lenses.
Do you think that really happy women have time to post their photos every 10 minutes of life, to report every step to strangers? Truly successful and confident women are engaged in themselves, their favorite thing. They just do not have to show pictures.
How dangerous is the transformation of your own body?
So fashion is changeable. Today they wear mini, in a month - maxi. But the changing length of the skirt is not so terrible as changing the standards of beauty. The dress can be changed, but what to do with a cut off nose, a changed chest volume, legs stretched out on special needles (for this purpose, the bones are specially broken)? Even with a good ending, the consequences can be irreparable for appearance and health.
For example, one of my students, Olesya, was firmly convinced that her beloved did not call for the altar because she was imperfect. To become perfect, you need to be like the modern “instagramists”. Olesya first changed her nose (and began to snore, to the great disappointment of her beloved), then began to take on her breasts and ass, but the operations were not very successful. The girl disfigured herself and her individuality. Olesin, the beloved, at first wondered why she needed it, tried to dissuade him. Did not listen. As a result: Olesya remained without a ring, and at the broken trough. Favorite left with the words: “I do not need a brother!”
By changing our appearance, we change our destiny, our subtle energy. And this is quite real in the character, health in the most sudden way. And the changes are often not in a positive direction. A person is ill, he is followed by a series of failures, the closest people turn away.
The same goes for more harmless ways of changing yourself. Bring your body with diets to the ideal, buy a handbag worth two salaries, which every self-respecting fashionable woman should have - a modern woman has so many important things to do! And this pursuit of trends just goes beyond all boundaries. You strive to be beautiful, in demand, but all this fuss is emptying you and making you unhappy.
As a result, a tired woman with bad hair, teeth, exhausted, energetically empty stares at you from the mirror. After all, we must work on a new wardrobe, so there is no time left for health and self-development. The result is the exact opposite. No coat will replace the lack of topics for conversation with a woman. A wicked, always hungry girl then wonders why she is forced to sit in a corner, while her non-ideal cuddle-up girlfriend is being wooed by several men.
What to do if you want to be in demand from the opposite sex?
Pump not only looks! Often, men enjoy success are not very pretty person. However, there is something in them that makes men fly around like moths on fire. This self-esteem, self-confidence, sense of humor, openness and naturalness, natural female attractiveness - all that is included in the concept of "charisma".
Beauty should be not only outside, but also in the shower. Good deeds, the right thoughts, strong energy, a positive attitude only succeed with the opposite sex. On these beauty secrets will not write in a glossy magazine. They are thousands of years old, and they have been available to the most famous women in history. In our Academy of Female Wisdom ALMA women open up these magical rituals and beauty secrets, giving unique knowledge, which can then be put into practice.
And first love yourself, believe in yourself. Be unique and inimitable. Sincere smile, open look, red lipstick, healthy teeth will attract more attention than all attempts to become an ideal of modern beauty. Give yourself and others more compliments, and very soon they will return to you not only in the form of pleasant words, but also expensive gifts or a millionaire husband. Why not?)
