A girl can ignore a partner for various reasons.
It is important to learn to recognize the motives of such behavior and take necessary measures for building relationships.
Why?
If a girl ignores you, what does that mean?
Exists a few reasons, on which a girl can demonstratively stop communicating:
- Mad at something. Randomly uttered careless remarks about appearance or character, insults, deferred important matters, being late for a meeting - all this can cause a strong resentment.
- Hormonal surges. The majority of the fair sex on certain days of the month, there are major changes in the body. During such a period, the girl is distinguished by heightened emotionality, excitability, and cannot always control her behavior.
- Cooling. Perhaps the relationship reached its final stage. People do not always find the strength to frankly admit to wanting to end a novel because they no longer have any feelings for a partner.
In this case, the desire to distance yourself becomes a sign of the beginning of the end.
- Manipulation. Often this behavior is a way of manipulation. The person who is exposed begins to get nervous and try to understand the cause of this cooling to his partner. As a result, he becomes more accommodating, compliant.
- Difficult life situation. The reason for the negative mood may lie in the presence of serious problems in life - a quarrel with parents, financial difficulties, troubles at work, illness and much more. In difficult situations, a person often closes himself, does not want to come into contact with others.
- Took a pause. This usually occurs in a long-term relationship with one of the parties having some dissatisfaction. The partner needs time to think about the situation, to assess the existing relationship.
As a result, she can come to an understanding that there is “not the one” next to her or to reconsider her own position and resume communication at the same level.
- Sees no prospects. Most girls who are in a stable and long-term relationship want to get married. The lack of a marriage proposal upsets their partner greatly, makes them nervous and think about the completion of the novel. Ignore in this case - a manifestation of insult.
- Offended by insensitivity. The lack of an emotional response from the guy can hurt badly.
Two reasons for deliberately ignoring
In what two cases does the girl specifically ignore the guy? Often the partner behaves in this way. purposefully, guided by one of the following reasons:
- Seeks to attract attention. Unfortunately, girls are not inclined to openly talk to the fan about their experiences and desires. They strive unobtrusively to bring the guy to an understanding of the situation, so that he himself realizes his mistakes and corrects them.
- Irritated by fan obsession. The opposite situation is when attention is excessive or undesirable.
The obsession of the fan, who does not cause favor, stimulates to withdraw from communicating with him.
How long can it last?
It all depends on the nature of the girl and on the guy wants to make a difference. Thus, admission of guilt, apologies, gifts, correction of mistakes can quickly return the situation to a positive direction.
If the reason for ignoring the partner is related to the serious personal problems of the girl, her dissatisfaction with the relationship, or the unwillingness of the guy to work on correcting her behavior, then the problem may persist long enough.
In such cases, there is a possibility that both parties to the relationship or one person will get tired of such difficulties and the romance will smoothly end.
It should be noted that some representatives of the weaker sex can differ by a rather demanding and complex character.
They use the partner’s sincere affection for their own purposes, successfully manipulating his feelings.
As a result, every small altercation becomes a reason for ignoring. The guy is important to learn to recognize this behavior, not to succumb to provocations.
Psychology tips
What to do? To change the situation for the better, it is advisable to follow the advice of psychologists. The choice of behavior strategy depends on the specific circumstances.
Girl offended
If the offense arose for an objective reason, it is necessary to make an effort to correct the perfect mistake. It is important to sincerely apologizeadmitting his guilt.
You do not need to be humiliated, show excessive indulgence. It is enough to openly and honestly discuss the situation that has arisen and make a proposal to end the conflict.
If the girl will continue to be offended, stubbornly defending her position, you need stop talking for a while. This will help the parties calm down, bring their thoughts in order.
The protracted break in communication at the initiative of the partner may be clear evidence that the relationship has cracked.
Perhaps in this case more correct. retreat and start rebuilding life with another person.
If the quarrel is really serious, and there is no desire to abandon your partner, you should try to melt her heart. unexpected manifestation of attention.
It could be a huge teddy bear, an immense bouquet of roses, a message live on radio, etc. A rare girl will resist such apparent attempts at reconciliation.
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If the relationship is at the initial stage, then the behavior of a friend may indicate a lack of interest on her part. No girl will not neglect the answer to the messages of the fan, which she is not indifferent to.
With a stable, long-term relationship, this behavior is intentional disregard. First you need to find out the reason for the offense.
It is necessary to recall the details of the last meeting or conversation.
If nothing comes to mind, you can try call a girl or meet her.
In the absence of such opportunities, it is advisable to communicate with friends who are surely in the know.
The former does not make contact
Often, after parting guys have a desire to resume a relationship. Only having lost the second half, they realize their true feelings, miss and worry.
The main rule that should be followed in such situations is not to waste time. The more time passes from the moment of separation, the higher the probability that she already has A new sucker appeared.
It is advisable to wait a week or two. This period is enough for the parties to calm down a little and bring emotions in order. Especially if the separation was accompanied by a clarification of the relationship.
After a set time, you should proceed to action. Important behave calmly and with dignity, acknowledging the mistakes committed and sincerely expressing the desire to work on themselves.
The decision remains for the girl - to take back the partner or finally break the connection with him without the hope of reconciliation. At the same time, you need to immediately discuss that there is no place for old offenders in a new relationship. Otherwise, nothing good will come of the reunion.
How to use ignore?
To ignore a girl you can respond with similar behavior.
This will not only make it impossible for her to manipulate her partner in her own interests, but also make you seriously think about the existing threat of termination of relations.
Also, the situation of temporary freedom can be viewed as a kind of “vacation”. During this period, free time appears for meetings with friends, for hobbies, etc.
Is it worth doing the same?
What happens if you ignore the girl? Guys can also ignore to influence. The unwillingness of a partner to make contact will cause many emotions and questions.
She will begin to analyze recent events, worry about the reasons for such behavior, speculate, etc. As a result, her unconscious interest in the partner’s identity will increase markedly.
This technique makes sense to use in a relationship when I can't get an emotional response in other ways..
For example, if a girl is spoiled by the attention of the opposite sex and takes courtship for granted.
The appearance of a gentleman who does not fall under its charm will have a sobering effect and force to reconsider the behavior.
If the relationship is long established, do not ignore your soul mate.
Such a disregard for the feelings of a partner can lead to serious disagreements, retaliatory insults and even separation. It is advisable to seek to discuss problems openly, not to hush up insults.
Due to the peculiarities of the female psyche, usually masculine ignore leads to the following consequences:
- She is angry. Failure to understand the reasons for this behavior, unwillingness to “play in silence” or self-righteousness can lead a friend to a very negative state. The behavior of the partner will cause only irritation and annoyance.
- She is getting cold. Any girl has a need for attention.
The absence of this attention for some time may be a reason for cooling towards the partner.
- She ignores the answer. The situation is similar in pairs, where both sides are stubborn and excessively proud. Reluctance to compromise leads to constant clashes and mutual manipulation.
How to ignore correctly?
Often people do not understand the difference between ignoring and quarreling.
In the first case, the person does not show any aggression, does not openly state his claims.
He simply shows an unwillingness to come into contact with an object that is unpleasant for him at the moment.
You can greet you politely at a meeting, calmly support the conversation, but at the same time with all your appearance and behavior demonstrate detachment, indifference and coldness.
Such behavior always causes confusion, intrigues and makes the partner think.
Thus, girls ignore their boyfriends for various reasons. Important to learn distinguish real offense from hidden manipulation and competently out of the situation of conflict.
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