Easy and joyful going to work you love.
But how often do we find such gifts in our life: a favorite job, creative realization and a decent income?
As a rule, most often you have to choose something between a reasonable salary and personal interests. A creative component, unfortunately, reduces the profitability of work. The thinner the border and the freer the flight, the more unpredictable the result may be. At this time, invoices for payment, bank loans, and hungry households cannot wait.
What is left for the working citizen to do, if the payment sheet pleases, and every Sunday covers melancholy?
Change the vector of thinking!
In serious spiritual practices, there is such a way to achieve victory over your ego, like forcing yourself to do the most unsightly grunt work without receiving any reward other than food and basic household items. Replacing your desires with renunciation and indifference to the mundane, you can supposedly achieve enlightenment. Everything is good, and, perhaps, this is what happens as a result of application of incredible efforts, but such an inheritance is prepared only for a few.
All the rest, psychologists advise to change the vector of thinking, and simply speaking, to love the activities in which you do. And no matter how much she hated you before making a decision to love her. Our consciousness is capable of much. One has only to do it seriously! Without total control over feelings and emotions, it will not work. We'll have to work on ourselves, but not on the work!
We do not work in order to work, but in order to ensure a free, comfortable, interesting and safe life. And the degree of freedom and comfort depends largely on how we feel during work. Not on the day of the payroll, but in general. On Monday morning, on Wednesday afternoon, on the eve of the quarterly report, after the delivery of the project ...
If our workdays are everyday and I want to speed them up, then this race is extremely dangerous. To hurry to live is wrong. To live "here and now" is the only possible way to become a free and happy person. And then this hateful work ...
So you have to love her! Not according to the principle of “being tolerated - falling in love”, but a little differently: adding colors, vivid experiences, emotions and pleasant expectations.
Start by thanking yourself every day for the quality of your work. Let it be a pleasant trifle or time for a hobby, a cup of coffee in a cozy coffee shop, meeting or buying a book, a magazine, going to the cinema. No matter what you give yourself, the main thing is that you deserve it. And during the working day, think more often about what awaits you after it.
Do not let the work own you around the clock, remove from the shoulders of office dust immediately after its completion. Let there be little time before sleep and your attention is required for children, wife, husband, parents. You deserve a small gift, you have made one small step to your dream! Take at least a little time yourself - as a merit.
We dream to the fullest!
Working without a goal is not interesting even in your favorite work, but at least the process of fulfilling responsibilities is not annoying there. And if all the goals belong to the leadership, and you are just a tool to achieve them, then it's time to mark your dreams!
Take a piece of paper, a pen and write "I want" or "I dream." And then boldly, without thinking, we write our wishes and dreams. We confess to ourselves the secret and seemingly unrealizable. But it is just as unrealizable as we do not believe in it! It is necessary to believe strongly and unconditionally, and the Universe will help us in whatever it can. Or maybe it is almost everything.
Agree, it is much more pleasant to earn on Monday, for example, for a monthly subscription to the pool or fitness center, rather than just so many rubles. And for Tuesday and Wednesday, with even more excitement, you can add yourself one vacation day by the sea. On Thursday, we work for a new dress, and on Friday we earn money for a walk with the children to an amusement park. Tell them before you go to work on Friday, where you are going and why, and their excitement will not take long to wait.
Yes, outwardly, nothing has changed, but the inner state of dissatisfaction will surely go away. After all, every day there will be joyful prospects in front of you!
It is much more difficult to fall in love with a small salary, if you really like work. He can cope with a decent salary, but boring duties are much easier.
