Love and relationship

How to understand that a girl wants you: signs

Ladies rarely speak directly about their sexual desires. After a noisy party, you don’t often hear from the girl: “Maybe we’ll go to my place?” But on this guy's proposal, she most likely will say: "Yes." Or will not say. In the latter case, even a scandal can be provoked, and the evening will be spoiled by everyone. So how do you know if a girl wants you?

Learn body language

Even if the beauty does not say anything directly, the body will give her head. Just carefully watch her unconscious reactions, and she will immediately become clearly excited or not. The following signs directly indicate that a woman wants a man:

  1. She flirts and smiles.
  2. Her pupils are dilated.
  3. Light blush.
  4. Intermittent breathing.
  5. She unknowingly straightens her hair, holds her hand over it, touches her chest, straightens her skirt. This is a kind of demonstration of their "charms" to the male. Her body, as if says: "Look, I am better than others. Choose me."
  6. Pay attention to the pose. An excited woman is like a cat, she arches her back, watching the posture, the movements become smooth. If she sits, then periodically changes the position of the legs, "plays" with a shoe, then removing it, then putting it on under the table.
  7. Her hands glide over the table and periodically stop on cylindrical objects. The girl strokes the foot of the glass or cigarette lighter.
  8. Often agrees with you in conversation, involuntarily repeats your emotions or movements. For example, she smiles at the same time as you or becomes serious in response to your bored expression.
  9. In a noisy company trying to stay with you alone.
  10. Comes very close, referring to the fact that the music prevents her from hearing what you are saying.
  11. The girl periodically touches you.

With all these signs, you can 99.9% say that the beauty is ready to spend time with you in a more intimate setting. But to eliminate this 1% failure, show perseverance. Respond to her signs with light touches, compliments, and hints. Gently transfer the conversation to sex and watch her reaction. If she continues to joke and playfully smile - bingo! You can count on a pleasant end of the evening.

How to understand that the girl wants you on a date

On which date, according to the version of all women's magazines, can a decent girl already agree to an offer to make love? On the third or fifth? You can understand that the beauty is ready for intimacy and today you will have an unforgettable night, according to the following features:

  1. Pay attention to her clothes. Usually, if your girlfriend is already ready for intimacy, she will try to look as sexy as possible. Her outfit will emphasize all her curves and decollete. And you can be sure that under it soon you will find expensive lace underwear.
  2. She orders only coffee and dessert. No girl will overeat before sex. In addition, an excited woman does not feel hunger. The most she can eat is a cake or a salad, and that is because the rules of decency require it. You for some reason came to the restaurant?
  3. She orders an alcohol - a glass of wine, a martini or a cocktail. The girl wants to relax a bit and overcome the constraint. Light alcoholic drinks are good helpers in this business. But whiskey with cola or brandy - a variant of "strong independent woman." In this case, it is unlikely that something will work out, your companion simply relieves the tension after the working day. Although, perhaps, after a significant dose of alcohol, she will be ready to relieve tension in some other way, but do you need a drunk girl in bed?

How to make a girl want you

It is equally interesting that a woman feels during sexual arousal and how to cause it? In the first part of this question, one can only give an approximate answer, since it is difficult to convey the sensation in words:

  • relaxation throughout the body;
  • "butterflies" in the lower abdomen;
  • pleasant feeling in the chest, genitals;
  • easy chill or, on the contrary, feeling of heat;
  • cardiopalmus;
  • surge of vigor.

How to cause these "butterflies" in the stomach? The following tips will help create sexual tension between you and the girl you like:

  1. You have to be a leader in everything, even in a normal conversation. Always "pull the blanket over yourself." You must be more energetic and confident than your companion. Remember that appeal to primitive instincts. The preference is given to the alpha male, and not just a kind, sweet guy.
  2. Use touch. First, in order for her to let you into her comfort zone, they should be neutral. For example, just take her hand, as if accidentally hook her shoulder, etc. When the girl gets used, you can use neat strokes, lightly hug her waist.
  3. Flirt - sure, wherever without him! Believe me, she is not interested in tedious long stories about who you are by profession and how you achieved everything. Talk about abstract topics, more about her than about yourself. The best option - funny stories and just a discussion of the situation around, like: "Look, what a funny couple at the bar. Lovers ... Would you like that?" or "See how much ice is in my whiskey, it's so cold. Do you want to try? Order it for you?" etc.
  4. If you are in a club or at a party, sometimes get distracted by other women you know. Flirt lightly with them to make the girl jealous. As it is known, the forbidden fruit is sweet. In addition, they want sought-after males. If you are circling around her all evening, it will look as if it is for you - the last hope for sex. But it certainly does not excite.
  5. When you see that she is interested, offer to step aside from a noisy company or retire.

In any case, even if you understand that the girl wants you, of course, you should not directly offer her to spend the night together or to behave too cheeky. Just be sure of yourself and unobtrusively offer to bring her home at the end of the evening, and on the way offer to come over for a cup of coffee, a glass of wine or see photos from your last trip to Italy.

Galina, Moscow

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