Today I decided to give a list of 10 wrong decisions that you may regret after 10 years.
"If ..." is the saddest phrase people say, regretting their past ill-considered and unconscious decisions. Below is a list of decisions that people often regret after a while.
10 decisions that you will regret in 10 years
1. Wear a mask in order to make a good impression on others.
If you constantly wear different masks and hide your true face behind them, then one day, when you want to take them off, you will find that there is nothing behind them. In concern for what others may think of you, you will very soon forget about who you really are. Do not be afraid of criticism and condemnation. Accept yourself as you are, without feeling guilty about it in your heart. Do not adjust to anyone, you do not need to be perfect and perfect to inspire others and make a good impression. If you yourself accept yourself, then others will love you and appreciate.
2. Accept someone else's dream as your own.
The biggest challenge in life is finding yourself, and being happy with what you find. A very important and responsible choice is the decision to stay true to the end of your beliefs and goals. If you see people around you who do not share your interests and aspirations, that's fine. This is proof that you are going your way, firmly and confidently standing on the ground. Sometimes you will do such actions, for which you will be considered crazy, but if you realize that doing your favorite thing, you do not notice how time passes, then know that you are going the right way.
3. Communicate with inappropriate people.
Sometimes, in a bad company, people get into trouble. Do not allow this. Always be aware of where, with whom, and why you spend your time. Such people will not be able to shoot at you if you do not put a gun in their hands. To associate with bad people or not is your choice, your decision.
4. To be a narcissist, a selfish person.
Remember that life, during which you have done good deeds, helped others disinterestedly, will be the best tombstone for you. Those who left a trace of love in their hearts, who inspired and made them happy, people will remember for a long time. Therefore, take care to capture your name in the hearts of other people, and not on a piece of stone. What you have done for your beloved will remain with you, but what you have done for others will not go anywhere, it will remain in the world.
5. Ignore opportunities for self-realization.
When you want to know about your past, look at where you are now. If you want to know what awaits you in the future, pay attention to what you are doing now. In order for something new to come into your life, you must first let go of the old, because it is gone, and it will never return. Realize this, and then you will succeed.
6. Put your hands down in difficult situations.
They learn from mistakes, become wiser and more experienced. Without errors, there will be no result. Even if it does not work out right away as you intended, this is no reason to retreat. Believe in your strength, feel free to try again. He who falls, rises and continues to walk, will inevitably come to success. After all, this is the main battle in life: to defeat yourself time after time, move forward. In the end, the triumph consists of small steps, actions and decisions.
7. Control and attention to every little thing.
Life should not strangle you, it should "touch." It is often necessary to simply relax and let everything go on as usual. Letting go of constant control and excitement. Try to take a deep breath and exhale, and you will see the dust crouch, and then you can again see the beautiful forest and step into it, as in a joyous future.
8. Accept less than you deserve.
You have to be very strong, in spite of everything, go forward with confidence and very patient to be able to wait for what you deserve. We fall only to soar even higher. Sometimes, in order to see more clearly, tears must wash your eyes. Fall, rise.
9. All the time to wait for the long-awaited Tomorrow.
The problem is that most people do not know how to live here and now. They live in the future and the past. In regret of the past and in fear of the future. In order to achieve their goals, there is no other time than Now. Appreciate your time, appreciate every minute, because life is short and too fleeting.
10. Try to be like everyone else, do not stand out from the crowd.
Your world owes you nothing. That you yourself must live and act. Stop dreaming, get up off the couch and start doing something. Do not live someone else's life. Do not be afraid to be different, be afraid not to find yourself. Do not expect the good wizard to come and solve all your problems. The time for the implementation of your plans has come, this time is now!
