How to find a boyfriend

Single girls often worry about their free status and want to find a boyfriend. And for them it seems a difficult task. But is everything so difficult? Despite the fact that “for 10 girls, according to the statistics, there are 9 guys”, you can find a guy and not spend the evening alone.

How to find?

First, you should be clear about what person you would like to see next to you One of the basic recommendations here is to look for people of your own level of values. Remember the people with whom you met before, formulate what did not suit you in this relationship. Understanding at the first stage of what traits the elect should and should not have is the key to success of normal subsequent relations.

This is one of the most important points.

First, you will imagine where exactly to look for your prince.
Secondly, you will not be disappointed in him after a week of communication (not a guarantee, of course, but the chances are increasing).

Very often, girls are guided by the principle of “get away, good kind guy” and fix their eyes on a person who can suffer in the expectation that he will pay attention / call / consider her princess in you. In such cases, I would like to recommend working independently on yourself or contact a specialist (psychologist). The fact is that in fact around a large number of normal men who are interested in relationships, and if you don’t notice them, it means you just don’t want to see. And if you pay attention only to those who will inevitably make you suffer, then they subconsciously are tuned to such “relationships”. This may hide your problems with self-esteem or the idea that a healthy, even relationship is boring and bland (this is another diagnosis — neurotic love). In any case, I want to say that long-term relationships in a pair of “energy vampire - sacrifice” will not lead to anything good, and sacrifice the victims even more.

Again, about self-esteem. The fact that you do not have a guy today is not a reason to turn your attention to inadequate men, thinking that there will be at least someone. If the partner does not suit you, then you will destroy yourself in this relationship. At the same time, the prince is not only a collective, but also a fabulous image. No matter how old you are, it is worth understanding that in real life there are real people.

What do you look like?

Perhaps the soul of a person is the main thing, but it is necessary that they still wanted to consider it. Therefore, to look at 100% - your duty, regardless of whether you have the second half or not. Some girls think that getting a guy's attention is the main thing. Therefore, choose a style of clothing, characterized by a minimum of a closed body, adding to this causing makeup and the same manner of communication.

Do not forget that the first acquaintance sets a certain level in your relationship. And what impression you made, and will be the main thing, what the man will be guided by. If you show with all your appearance that you are not against light and rapidly developing relations - a man will see exactly this (and why should he complicate it?) And then not be surprised asking why they all want only one of you.

In general, balance is needed everywhere - do not hang on a man, but do not push him away. A woman should not be seen that the man made her happy with his attention. For you, this should be the norm. Communicate smoothly, kindly, with a smile and always with a sense of humor.

Do not forget that the guy is also looking for a girl who will meet certain of his ideas. Therefore, it's time to think about what you would like to be and to strive for your ideal. Intersection points always increase the likelihood of deeper relationships, and working on yourself will distract you from lonely suffering thoughts. As a rule, girls who love and respect themselves, are attentive to their time and development, are valued by men much higher than those who are ready for the first whistle to run on a date.

Therefore, in pursuit of personal happiness, do not forget about yourself, on the contrary - give yourself maximum attention.

Where to find a guy?

It is difficult to give any advice, because you can meet a person anywhere - even while going to the store for bread. It is important not to be closed from the world and not to sit at home all the time. Those who decide to find their love on the Internet, would like to wish to be more careful and not to forget that: first, you can never fall in love by correspondence (for girls it happens), and secondly, it is extremely rare that we imagine we represent, corresponds to reality. The more active your life is, the more you will have friends.

If you recently broke up with a guy, do not think that he is your destiny, and you will never be happy without him. This is 100% wrong. So just go out and walk around where you are interested: cinema, exhibitions, museums, visit the discoveries of new establishments in your city. It should not be an end in itself to cover everything that happens, but do not miss what you are really interested in.