How to find your person in life?
Love ... love. ... How can you determine that the person you met is really your person, one who will understand you not even from a half-word, but from a glance? What to do if you have not met your soul mate?
It often happens that people live according to a scenario that was laid from childhood, respectively, and they are looking for a life partner, based on images of childhood. All these books and fairy tales about magic castles, a beautiful prince and a magnificent princess, incredible love stories, of course, have left a trace in your memory and now live in the form of illusions in real and adult life.
People who have not yet matured dream of meeting a fairy-tale hero who will bring happiness to him or her, will give life to colors and wait that from the very moment such a person meets, all miracles will start to be performed and everything will be like in those children's fairy tales: “Wedding. they lived happily ever after. "
Why is all the most interesting in the stories about magic love ends with a wedding? What happened next, how did they wake up every morning, why not describe everyday work, everyday problems and life itself in the future?
Everything seems to be easy, to meet him or her, to fall in love and get married. But how to find your person so that the words "they lived happily ever after" was not only the end of the tale, but also the continuation of everyday life?
First you need to grow up, to become a person, a person who is able to make important decisions on his own and be responsible for his life. Develop skills such as autonomy, emotional balance, dedication, understanding of the social roles of each person. To gain self-confidence and a stable position in life.
Learn to lovebecause it is not enough to love only you. You yourself should be able to give love, joy, tenderness and make a person happy. Love yourself and other people, help them disinterestedly and take care of them, be kinder.
Determine for yourself who you want to see next to him, what should be this person. You do not need to look for a husband in your future husband who can solve all your problems and protect you, and the future wife should not be your mother and only take care of you.
What character traits your future chosen one or the chosen one should have, which should be necessary, and what qualities you will not put up with and accept. This must be done in order not to make a complaint to another person, regarding his character traits and try to change a person. You must accept the person as he is, otherwise the relationship is doomed to failure.
After you have roughly understood what kind of person you need, what you should represent, what positive qualities you should have, you can go to the question "How to find your person?".
Patience.
Be patient, no one promised you that you will meet that person with whom you will be comfortable tomorrow already. Do not put labels of loneliness on yourself, look ahead and around yourself, maybe this person is next to you.
Environment.
Look at your surroundings. Is there that person there, maybe you just didn’t notice him before? Look at what people you communicate with, how likely is it that the person you are looking for will meet you in this company?
Take action.
Just sit and expect that you will find and come to you, at least silly. Search, communicate in real life, on the Internet, meet.
Work on yourself.
Start to grow and attend various exhibitions, seminars, trainings. Be a comprehensively developed person who can be an interesting conversationalist and reliable person.
Perhaps these are only general recommendations. Each person is individual and only you yourself can know what kind of person you will become. There is no loneliness, it happens, so until that person has met. Remember, no need to wait until you make happy, be happy yourself, give warmth and joy.
