How to attract attention and enjoy success with men

You can be a wonderful hostess, a good person, a girl with excellent intelligence and a sense of humor, but nobody will appreciate it if you don’t know how to attract the attention of the opposite sex. Is it necessary to have model data and Monica Bellucci features in order to enjoy success with men?

Appearance - business card

Of course, the first impression about us is based on external data. A person at the first acquaintance can form an opinion only on a couple of casual phrases and what he sees with his own eyes. But girls who believe that in order to attract male attention, be sure to have the data of famous actresses and supermodels are mistaken. In addition, views on external beauty in men and women are different.

How not to look like

So what do you need to look like to immediately hook the guy you like? For starters, consider the most common mistakes:

Too bright makeup and unnatural styling.

Concealers, highlighters, bronzers, blush, eye shadow, mascara, eyebrow gel, contour pencil, lipstick, lip gloss - this is not a complete arsenal that is contained in many girls' cosmetics. Trying to imitate popular divas from Instagram, remember that you can see all your tricks up close, and your face resembles an oil painting from a gallery. The desire to hold your hand through the hair, on which a ton of varnish, the guys also do not arise.

For the opposite sex prof. Makeup and styling look repulsive. So leave all these "tricks" for photo shoots.

Challenging clothes.

Mini and deep cleavage, translucent dresses, clothing, emphasizing each protrusion on the body are able to create a catchy image. Guys pay attention to girls in too provocative clothes, but with only one purpose - to satisfy sexual desire. Unfortunately, even if in a mini-skirt, a push-up bra and a translucent blouse the candidate of mathematical sciences will walk, after getting acquainted with her, no one will even begin to listen about interesting theories and the number of hours devoted to graduate school.

We do not recommend wearing challenging outfits beyond the matrimonial bedroom or night club. And that, in the latter case, only if with you - reliable protection. You can look sexy and feminine in more modest clothes.

The habit of dressing in a sporty style.

Tracksuit, comfortable hoodies and sneakers leave for the gym or walking the dog. It is difficult to look more feminine than the young man you like, in a crumpled batch file, sneakers and lowered jeans. You will not be able to attract attention in this case, because you merge with the general mass, and it is difficult to subconsciously identify you as a girl.

Perhaps in kroksah more convenient than in sandals on the platform. But the first option will make you no more noticeable than a bench in the park, and the second one will accentuate the beauty of the ankles, visually lengthen the legs, and give gait to femininity.

What external data most attract the attention of the opposite sex?

Gentlemen prefer not only blondes, but also brunettes, brown-haired and redheads. The main external criteria are:

naturalness;
proportional figure;
femininity;
pleasant features;
well-groomed nails, hair and skin.

Clothing should hide flaws and emphasize dignity. The same function in makeup. Make-up should be almost imperceptible, while making the face proportional and attractive. Do not be on the well-known models or actresses, select all individually, taking into account personal external features.

We advise you to define your type of appearance, shape, color type and build on this data. Even without the help of a stylist, if you seriously approach the issue, you can create an attractive and original image.

How to learn to attract men

Remember how the heroine of a famous film repeated to herself: "I am the most charming and attractive!"? Thus, you can really develop self-confidence. It is our internal energy that attracts the opposite sex. The girl with the data supermodels, but dissatisfied with herself, will lose the self-confident and fun fat woman.

The following recommendations will help you learn how to attract the attention of guys and enjoy success with the opposite sex:

You need to be open for dating and communication.

Internal clips repel. If, when meeting a new person, you cannot find a topic for conversation, you feel stiff, awkward, we advise you to visit a psychologist. You need to determine the cause of these conditions and eliminate it. You can independently try to develop sociability. No one expects from you any non-trivial opinions or a deep analysis of the foreign policy situation in the country.

To develop sociability, stick to the rule: "What I see, I am talking about that." Do not frantically search the list of topics for conversation. Trendy sneakers interlocutor, good weather, billboard on the pole may well be a suitable topic for unobtrusive dialogue.

Watch your posture and facial expression.

Your facial expressions should be alive, smile openly! Do not hesitate to give a smile to random passersby. Do not look at your feet, watch your posture. Surroundings should catch the signals of your body that they are pleasant and pleasant to you.

Do not be afraid to look a man in the eye.

The look plays a big role in communicating with the opposite sex. Even if this is just a casual passer-by, looking straight into his eyes with interest, one can arouse a reciprocal interest in him and push him towards an acquaintance.

Show a sense of humor.

Follow the conversation, react to interlocutor jokes, fend back. How to develop a sense of humor? Read the classics, for example, Ilf and Petrov, watch comedy shows.

Behave naturally.

Trying to give yourself a fleur of perplexing mysteriousness or to resemble a pretentious secular diva, you risk looking ridiculous and push the guy away from you. Just be yourself. Do not think about how you look from the side. It is better to pay more attention to the interlocutor.

Do not impose.

Many girls “sin” by literally peeking into a man’s mouth, showering him with compliments and intrusive offers to get in touch with, meet sometime, have a cup of coffee together. They try to praise themselves, tell us more about their achievements, laugh unnaturally at the jokes of a young man - in a word, they do everything to please them. This behavior signals the guy that you have literally a “despair stage” in your personal life, and he will hasten to retire.

Show that you are sympathetic to the interlocutor.

Unobtrusively show a man that you like him - the whole art. Some girls have this gift with innate charm, but if you are not one of them, it is worth learning. It is not necessary to talk about it, but a casual touch, a sexy smile, a look directly in the eyes from under the half-lashed eyelashes can tell more than a thousand words.

You will surely attract men if you learn self-confidence. Girls who do not doubt their attractiveness, easily find topics for communication and a reason for dating, do not worry that they will be rejected, and therefore enjoy success. Therefore, before you learn to conquer the sympathies of men, we recommend loving yourself. Just tell yourself: "I am the best, beloved, beautiful!" And you will succeed!