When asking about strong people, large brutal men with big muscles and a determined look come to mind. But is this the real power? Is it possible to determine how strong people are by their appearance? Is it true that such people have a certain power of sight? Is it possible to develop this skill, or is it laid from birth? Generally, how to gain strength? Next will be strong tips for anyone who wants to be strong.
Who are the strong people?
Strong people are those who have inner strength and determination. The key word is "internal." The strength of a person is determined by the core that forms its behavior. We are all familiar with situations when a less impressive, but more “spiritual” opponent won in a conflict. Why is that? Yes, because the appearance never reflects the essence. Two-meter height and “slanting sazhen in the shoulders” can be inherited by a coward, and a short, thin guy has a real “lion heart”.
How to understand which of them is stronger? Most likely, if you need to move the sofa, the first will be stronger, and if you stand back to back, defending against the bullies, then the second. Although there are nuances - hooligans, more often than not, are also cowardly, so that they can be impressed by two-meter height, and the conflict simply will not start. But this is not so important, because street fights are only a small percentage of those situations in life where the power of people is manifested.
How to determine a strong person?
Inner strength has specific manifestations that are easy to detect with its owner:
- Decisiveness in achieving goals;
- Active life position;
- The ability to say "no";
- Philosophical attitude to failures;
- Confidence in your strength;
- The ability to take responsibility for themselves;
- Life principles;
- Self-esteem and self-esteem;
- Honesty towards yourself and others;
- The ability to overcome their fears.
Perhaps this list does not convey all the qualities of strong people, but helps to form basic ideas about them. Human strength is not only the power of gaze, determination in voice or bravado. Strong people become so, thanks to a variety of their moral qualities.
What gives the power of sight?
The eyes are the mirror of the soul. With this statement, hardly anyone would argue. What we have inside is reflected in the look. The power of sight is manifested not only in confrontation. The girls are familiar with the strength of the gaze of some men who are of interest or attraction.
Sometimes the power of the gaze is soothing, encouraging, attracting or even hypnotizing. But what is behind this force? Inner harmony and self-confidence. Is it possible to train the power of sightwithout deep work on yourself? I guess, yes. Many know how to pretend to be stronger or more successful, turning out to be ordinary liars. No need to go far, just visit any nightclub and pay attention to the abundance of "alpha males" who set up the network in the hope of seducing another girl. In the morning, many of them are difficult to call even a male, but in the evening their power of sight simply disarms.
There are several ways to develop the power of sight. First and foremost, increase the ability to look into the eyes. What is needed for this? If you feel that you can’t “drill” someone for a long time, but you don’t want to take your eyes off, you can watch your interlocutor on the bridge of your nose. Visually, it is almost imperceptible, but the duration of eye contact increases.
In the second place, it would be nice master self-hypnosis. For example, there is a guy walking along a dark alley, and a drunken company meets him. If he was a master of sport in boxing, it probably did not bother him. And so, the threat to get the cuffs is quite real. His only chance is to prevent a fight. If he “pulls” his head into his shoulders or shyly looks at his feet, then the chances that they will attach to him will increase. What to do? Shrug shoulders, imagine yourself a master of all possible martial arts and go as if in his TT pocket, and a company of soldiers behind his back. The main thing is not to overdo it. And it will be like in a joke, when a passer-by picked up air, increasing visually the chest. Having passed two ambals, he exhaled with relief and heard two similar exhalations from behind.
How to become a strong person?
In order for the power of the gaze to be not artificial, but real, you need to be confident in your own abilities, to correspond to your self-conceit. Otherwise, disappointment will become the calling card. But how to still be strong? It is worth paying attention to the development of his character and willpower. Develop principles and stick to them.
Learn to say no around and not change your mind. Also, it is important to be active and proactive, not to be afraid of responsibility. It is advisable to devote time to their physical fitness. It is not necessary to become a professional athlete, but to be fit - everyone can do it. No less important is the appearance, grooming, cleanliness.
Also for most adults, the main measure of success is their work achievement. To become more self-confident, they need to develop professionally. That is, everyone chooses what to be strong in.
Not less important attitude to fear, especially before setbacks. Strong people do not "give up", but draw conclusions from their mistakes and move on. They are rather afraid not to try than to make an unsuccessful attempt.
The strength of the gaze depends on the inner strength. Strong people do not necessarily have impressive dimensions or threatening appearance. Their power is contained in the "iron" character and rich inner world. It makes no sense to develop a "sizzling look", without real confidence in their capabilities. And in order for it to appear, it is necessary to work on yourself, engage in self-improvement, and develop strong-willed qualities.
