For many centuries, men were traditionally the first to admit their feelings, since they had long dominated all spheres of life. At the end of the 19th century, theories of emancipation and feminism seized the globe, women began to actively receive education, master new professions and conquer peaks unseen before. An exception is not the love relationship.
Today, declarations of love to a man pronounced by a girl are not a reason for gossip or censure: this is a normal human act worthy of respect. But many girls hide their feelings for fear that they will be rejected or misunderstood, sometimes losing a real chance of happiness. How not to miss this chance? How to understand that it's time to confess your feelings and how best to make a girl?
Training
Do not rush to confession, first make sure that your feelings are mutual. How to define it? Answer the following questions:
- Did he invite you somewhere?
- Does he keep talking to you himself?
- Is he interested in your mood or how you spent your day?
- Do you have common topics for conversation?
- Does he look into your eyes?
- Is trying to touch you or be closer?
If you answered most of the questions positively, then it is likely that the young man has the same feelings towards you. However, it is impossible to accurately determine the strength of his emotions, if you have not yet begun to meet, or just recently. If you are not sure of his responsive feelings, then recognition should be postponed until you get clear signs of sympathy.
You should not confess in love to a guy who does not pay any attention to you: you risk being ridiculed or rejected. You shouldn’t indulge yourself with hopes that he is shy or afraid of something: men usually pay attention to girls who they like.
Confession
If you have been dating for some time, you are really well together, and you don’t want to hide your feelings, then you may well confess to being in love first. This should not spoil the emerging relationship - on the contrary, you can find out if you have a future together. There may be two options, and in each you can find your plus:
- In case of a reciprocal recognition, you will strengthen the relationship and move to a new level.
- In the case of silence, you can understand that the young man is not yet ready for a serious relationship with you.
How to confess to a guy in love? How can this be done? There are lots of ways to list some of them:
- Romantic dinner. Prepare a favorite surprise: cover the table, light candles, open a bottle of good wine. The right atmosphere for recognition will help you relax and prepare your partner for a heart-to-heart talk.
- Letter. So they confessed their love even in the time of Pushkin, so what prevents you from using this method now? If you are afraid that at the meeting you will not be able to say the words of a declaration of love to a man, try to describe everything on paper and give him your letter.
- Celebration. You can coincide with a declaration of love for the birthday of a young man or for the New Year, or to a date that is significant to your relationship. Usually significant dates mark a new stage in life, so the words of declaration of love to a man can be the best gift.
How not to confess love to a guy
- Do not write about your feelings by SMS!
- Do not throw a confession on the wall of a guy in a social network.
- Do not pass your recognition through third parties.
- Do not try to confuse him with anonymous confession.
- Do not confess your love if you have drunk: this will not add to your credibility.
