Before you fall in love with a married man, it does not interfere with a good assessment of the situation and decide whether you need it. Even if you are not a supporter of adhering to any moral principles, think about the fact that the family, and especially the family with children, is an already formed “social unit”.
People grind to each other, went through certain difficulties, and if they live together and are happy, then it is better to turn their eyes to a free man.
But it happens that people got married, and after they realized that they were not suitable for each other, but continued to live together out of habit.
How to attract attention?
If you have serious plans for a man, you should not start a relationship with seduction. Not everyone can resist, but after sex there is a high probability that he will perceive what happened as an error and this will end the conversation. Your task is to make sure that he himself began to take the initiative, and increasingly he found himself thinking about you.
To begin with, you should get into his eyes as often as possible. Only everything should be a measure - if you work in the same building, it is not every 15 minutes, but once or twice a day. Of course, at the same time you should look great and not pay attention to it, limiting yourself to a greeting, ordinary phrases and a charming smile.
When you start catching yourself on his admiring glances, you can proceed to the next stage. Now it is important for you to make friends.
You need to learn more about him, his interests, favorite things.
His relationship with his wife is not yet where to go. As soon as he begins to share the details of family life, this will mean that he is counting on something more with you. But now it is important to maintain distance.
Keep yourself interested
It is difficult to fall in love with a man who married recently, as they are usually very passionate about their wives. The question here is what purpose you are pursuing - if just sex, then it may succeed, but if you plan to take the place of his spouse, then it is better to wait until the interest in her will fade.
Now you need to make sure that a man wants to spend time with you, and not at home with his wife. To do this, he should receive from communication with you all that he lacks in communication with her. He knows his wife far and wide, and all men love a riddle in a woman. Therefore, if at the initial stage it was easy for you - he did not know anything about you, now this mystery must be preserved. Be elusive, do not make appointments, create the illusion that you can disappear at any time.
In communication, always try to emphasize the advantages of your man. All wives “educate” their husbands, and men, of course, get tired of it. Everyone wants his actions to be appreciated. Therefore, you need to praise it more often.
In general, express as little criticism as possible - in the direction of the authorities, the entourage, and even more so his wife. At the initial stage, only positive should always come from you.
Never give him everything in full that he wants - finish the conversation first, leave the meeting earlier, referring to being busy, and when you realize that he is ready for much, so that you are close, the time for the decisive step will come. No, this is not a heart-to-heart talk with a declaration of love and a request to leave his wife.
Now you need to withdraw, so that he can compare and understand that without you his life is boring and incomplete. When he himself begins to talk about the future, ask how he imagines him. Here you need to be prepared for the fact that a man, despite all your efforts, may not agree to tear down the family.
Patience is the main thing you need to arm in this game. No man will run away from the family without weighing a huge number of times all the pros and cons. You need to show that he will be much better with you. At the same time it is necessary to avoid open comparisons, doing everything by chance, calmly, confidently and elegantly.
