Social networking helps to get to know each other better. There is no better place to meet than Vk or Facebook, for example. During the correspondence, the guys and girls do not feel the awkwardness that is always present on the first dates, you can ask any question, do not hesitate to look into your eyes. True, most often flirting in the network remains virtual. How to interest the correspondent girl you like so that she wants to meet and continue dating?
What topics to communicate with the girl by correspondence?
Pay attention to your social network page. Guys with hundreds of photos of a loved one do not attract girls. Leave two or three photos in the most favorable angles. Also repel records containing obscene language, slang words and phrases, offensive jokes about women. Make sure your posts and statuses are not vulgar or boastful.
Often the guys do not even know what you can correspond with the girl, and which topics are better not to touch. How to start a dialogue? What to ask the girl in the correspondence? We offer to get acquainted with the selection of topics for correspondence with the opposite sex in social networks:
- What are your plans for the weekend?
The most unobtrusive topic. Talking about rest allows you to escape from everyday work, dream and mentally move a couple of days ahead. Such conversations are relaxing and uplifting. And leading questions can push a girl to the idea, and why not spend this weekend with you?
- Discussion of the latest movie premieres.
A conversation on this topic will allow you to learn about the preferences of the girl. You can argue with her about the quality of new films, the game of actors, but do not overdo it. In disputes, do not prove your case, but flirt, tease. By the way, find out what kind of premiere she would like to see at the cinema. An excellent reason to invite a girl to spend an evening watching a movie with you!
- Daily affairs - work, study, friends.
Be more interested in the girl than tell about yourself. Ask questions: "How was your day?", "What news?". Take an active part in her life, even if virtually.
- Interests, hobbies.
Learn about the interests and hobbies of the girl, tell us about their own. You may be able to find points of contact. If there is no common interest, do not worry. But your darling will understand that you are a versatile person.
- What plans do you have for the future?
Another interesting topic of conversation that will help you get closer. After all, we do not share our plans and dreams with everyone, but only with those who are not indifferent.
- Tell secrets.
Nobody is obliged to tell every girl from Vk or Facebook what bank your savings and account number are in. But telling small, insignificant secrets is just a must at the beginning of a relationship. This will bring you closer and allow you to get to know each other better. Share a story from adult life, or tell us about childish pranks. Then offer to play a game, the essence of which is to take turns to open each other secrets.
Start with minor secrets, for example: "I smeared a chair with chalk to a teacher in fifth grade," "I wrote love sms to my sister on behalf of the most beautiful guy in school." As the game continues, start discovering more piquant secrets. Innocent fun should lead you to a rather immodest and "hot" conversation.
In the correspondence do not forget to make compliments. Let her know that you notice her beauty and you like it. Speak about the fact that you have never been so interesting to communicate with any girl. Instead of a greeting, it is sometimes better to write: "What is your fascinating look on this photo" or "You have such a sophisticated profile." Celebrate her remarkable mind, sense of humor and attractive appearance, but try to say non-trivial compliments.
What topics are better not to touch in the correspondence with the girl?
Why do girls stop responding to messages? Perhaps she has a very tight schedule and absolutely no time for correspondence. But most likely, the fact is that she was not interested in your communication. How to avoid becoming boring and not get into the "ignore list"? Avoid the following topics for correspondence with the girl:
- past relationships;
- too frank talk about sex;
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offenses against women; - vulgar jokes;
- gossip about friends, former lovers;
- jokes that demean women or other nationalities;
- complaints about life, bosses, teachers, parents;
- complexes and psychological problems;
- financial difficulties.
offenses against women;You will also be at a disadvantage if you are too selfish and narcissistic. This is not the same as confidence. Feel the line between these concepts! Do not brag about your income, position in society. No need to try with all your behavior to say that the girl is incredibly lucky that you paid attention to her.
Remember the sense of humor
Correspondence in social networks or by SMS is a kind of game. Girls see in it a field for flirting, a way to spend time without boring. Do not forget about it, be cheerful and unobtrusive. A good sense of humor will allow you to stand out among other guys with whom your chosen one is familiar. Make sure that the girl always had a good mood!
Use not only text messages, but all the features of social networks. Send her favorite music, funny pictures, photos of beautiful places, poems and jokes. But make sure that your humor is not too "sharp", avoid embarrassing topics. Remember taboo:
- jokes about her friends and relatives;
- funny comments about her figure, appearance, style of clothes;
- ridiculing the mistakes of the girl, including spelling and grammatical.
Tip! If you want a closer relationship, do not delay the correspondence in social networks. This is just a way to meet, get to know each other, have a good time. When you notice that the girl reciprocates, offer to meet. After all, real life is not on the Internet, but outside the window. Remember this!
